posted on Apr, 3 2011 @ 05:24 PM
I am in a strange dilemma here and just curious what opinions other people may hold on this subject.
There is a girl who I have known for a short while, we met throuigh a good friend of mine that I know from our local music scene.
We always talk whenever we see each other and we always joke and laugh and have the best conversations. This girl is attractive physically, but
mentally we just seem to click very well. Every time we are around each other there is a very strong chemistry, like we have known each other for
I hadn't really considered this girl as even an option for any romantic interest, mainly because of our age difference. Im 34 years old (a young 34
of course ).....and she happens to be 20.
The thing is I have not been the one to initiate things, but in all honesty she flirts with me and lays it on pretty thick every time we chat. And now
she is starting to prod and ask questions to see if I am willing to take that next step forward.
So my question.....What is an appropriate age difference these days? What is considered socially acceptible by todays standards? I know people who
have 10, 15 even 20 year differences in age but have been together for years, happily and successfully.
I also know that every time I hear of a 25 year old dating a 40 year old I sort of cringe and think "dirty old bugger"...and thats not what I want
to be known as.
So legally speaking I know 20 is an adult, and the age difference isnt an issue legally. But I ask ATS.....is it wrong to date someone 14 years
what say you?