Originally posted by SevenBeans
Originally posted by mblahnikluver
You blame yourself and wonder what happened or what you could have done differently. It is not something easy to deal with esp when you are so excited to be pregnant. I know I have been there. I am unable to have kids and it was nothing I did, my body has female issues and I can't sustain a pregnancy. It is very hard for me because I really want kids and I still can by adoption but I would like to have my own.
And?
Many miscarraiges occur because of neglect... it's a simple fact so I'm not sure what you're going on about your personal experience for.
Do you think pregnant women should be free to smoke, cause brain damage etc. etc. to their unborn?edit on 22-2-2011 by SevenBeans because: (no reason given)
It is not due to neglect. I have endometriosis really bad and that caused mine. So it's my fault? That is why I brought up my experience. Also age can play a huge factor in miscarriages esp for women in their mid to late 30's. To say that a miscarriage is always due to neglect is just ignorant. Do you share your beliefs with people you know that have had one? I dare ya to..I'd love to see how they treat you.
Oh and my mom smoked during her entire pregnancy with my sister and I and we were just fine and healthy as can be. I never had any health problems as a child and still don't.




