Originally posted by Jess_Undefined
reply to post by Wyn Hawks
But we have to understand here....Mblah is the only one in this whole wide world who has ever been in real love. We have so much to learn from her
here. We are blessed to have such a wise member here to teach us. Teach us, Mblah. Teach us how to fight for love.
Sorry but I find this post in poor taste and rather sad.
When someone is hurting and in pain, and yes love can hurt, you don't go kicking them. Not only is this childish but hurtful as well and to all those
that starred this post, you should be ashamed of yourselves.
Mblanikluver is hurting and it helps her to write out her feelings. Yes she seems to have a one track mind here and doesn't seem to listen to some of
the good advice given from the heart in this thread, but that's what happens when you are in love.
Look at the post from Drumsrfun...you can tell that he is very caring, disagrees with mblah, but isn't mean. Berenike made excellent post's, as well
as a few others but not in a demeaning way. Sometimes, when you have a friend hurting like this, you need to suck it up and if you want to help be
prepared for a backlash. That's what real friends do.
A lot of you need to get a thicker skin here. You aren't the ones hurting here, mblah is and if you are not willing to see that, and be willing to
take the high road and suck up your own pride in order to help a friend, then maybe you should just stay the hell away.
Unless of course you like kicking the ones who are down. I am disgusted by the post that I quoted here and see nothing more than this being an attempt
by a little schoolgirl who gets their kicks from hurting others.
For all of those that are taking mblah's comments as being rude and unwanted, tey to remember who is the one that is in pain here please.
Love hurts, we all know this and right now one of us is in pain. Anything that I could say to mblah has already been said in this thread and the only
way that anything is ever going to be solved for her is to go and see her guy for herself as she says "face to face".
For me to tell her it's a wasted effort will not change anything. You all know this and yet like someone who is going out driving in a snowstorm, you
say "be careful" as if the other person won't anyways.
If you can't see this, please please stop posting negatives in here. Mblah needs to do what she needs to do and nothing any of us is going to change
that. Instead, just give some support, and I'm not talking about agreeing with her here. That's different all together.
In other words, don't talk down to her or try to piss her off, just talk to her..She needs friends, not know it all's right now. Suck it up people
and try to remember what it's like when you are that in love and afraid of losing it. All of the emotions that are running through your mind. It's
tough, and yes it does make a person very fragile and bitter.
We all know that she is going to go to Italy. What the outcome is cannot be determined even though everyone has an opinion. I have my own but will
keep it to myself right now as it doesn't matter one whit. But if mblah comes back with her dreams shattered, she will need her friends even more. To
put a tag of " i am right and you are wrong" on this is so childish and petty that it is showing many peoples true colours.
To mblah: I wish you the very best, you know that. Do what you gotta do girl....all the best...you do have many friends here and a lot of them are
indeed doing what they think is best to help you. don't shut them out please..as you say, it's always best face to face and a lot in this thread has
been written with love..really..