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Originally posted by asperetty
reply to post by CeasarKhanTheGreat
thats what is stopping me, but its completely certain he needs help. the problem is that help in India for his kind of problems is waaaaay out of their family budget, and if he were to go to a psych ward or any variety of rehab centers, he would never leave. its like do i just forget about it or do i ruin his life further by not allowing him to ruin his life without someone stepping in and saying otherwise.
Originally posted by NonKonphormist
Lots of teenagers go through feelings like this.
What most of them don't realize is that they are going through a death process. It's the death of them as a child and becoming an adult. This can bring on all sorts of negative thoughts and even thoughts of suicide, this is the result of not understanding what they are going through. They feel as if they have come to the end but don't understand that it's metaphorical.
Originally posted by chrismarco
reply to post by asperetty
You really need to urge him to talk with his parents regarding this...you should also try and have some discussion. If you are a neighbor you have the obligation to bring this is up as an adult..if you are around his age you still need to talk to his parents or encourage the kid to talk with them and then follow up...if the kid does something horrible and nobody but you is aware that's a lot of guilt to carry around. Yeah he's going through some teenage emotions but he deffinately needs some reassurance that everything is temorary in life growing up...
Originally posted by asperetty
his family is strict to the Jain code, but he 'knows' religion is all crap. he knows there is a god, but he blames god for existence and at the same doesn't care enough to blame god.
Originally posted by NonKonphormist
For some reason, the more this tread goes on, the more I think it's fake.
We are told a problem, we offer credible solutions.
Then more information is offered, throws the original solutions out of kilter.
More solutions are offered, more info gets trickled down.
Just seems to me that the metaphorical goal posts are just going to be moved every time anyone gets close to solving the problem.
If I'm wrong, then I am very sorry, but it all just seems a bit odd to me.
Originally posted by xynephadyn
Im having flashbacks of the VA Tech massacre.