posted on Sep, 2 2010 @ 06:18 PM
reply to post by Romantic_Rebel
It just seems that all your reasons seem to deal with having to control one's inability to be responsible. Like being unfaithful, not handling your
share of the relationship, or even just being a jerk to begin with.
I think if you're a stable, responsible person, none of those reasons really apply to you. Nothing is going to fix being a cheater or a jerk. If you
can't love one woman correctly, how could you love multiple and get away with it?
I'm not knocking you personally, I just think it seems like a very cold, selfish ideology. It seems very archaic to me, where the man is typically
the central figure. I certainly don't want to share my lover with anyone, so why should I expect her be okay with it?
I would have a lot of questions for a woman who would be okay with being in a relationship like that.
It all comes down to self-worth though, I suppose. If they're all consenting adults, more power to them. Its just not something I could get behind or
(admittedly) even understand.