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Originally posted by Jovi1
Prison? Okay now don't get me wrong I do believe people can screw up and find themselves in a whole lot of trouble. In this day and age it isn't a very difficult thing to do, and we should be willing to overlook their mistakes. However I do not think that starting a romantic relationship with a woman in prison is a very good idea. You will never be really sure where what she is writing is coming from, is she lonely, is she depressed, is she looking for an easy mark to fleece when she gets out? These are questions I would have to consider everyday myself.
One of the problems with the prison system is quite simply its crime school, they talk about it and figure out how to do it better and learn what not to do.
Be a friend and write to her if you wish, inmates love getting mail but just be wary of how much of yourself you invest in writing them.
The hero complex your gonna have to figure out how to break out of that really. While it is fun for awhile to play "knight in shining armor" it gets old and tired real quick. Women you have to constantly save are not worth your time and effort.