posted on May, 7 2010 @ 09:39 PM
He isn't tall, but he isn't short. He looks great with short hair or long hair. He has a devious smile regularly, and another one for me that lights
up his whole face. He can be brooding at times, but most of the time he is content at the very least.
He looks better with a few days growth of facial hair than freshly shaved. He's not muscular, but he is quite physically strong. He handles my temper
tantrums with great patience.
He is well- read, and scholarly is conversation, but is not afraid to take it to your level without being demeaning. He is not afraid to lay his guts
out on the table for me, but is more reserved in public.
He opens doors, takes out the garbage, and helps with the laundry. He isn't always well dressed, and prefers pajama pants to slacks, but he looks
damn fine in blue jeans and a polo shirt.
He's a poet when he talks. He is just so easy to listen to. His biggest compliment is me falling asleep in his arms while he talks to me about
nothing and everything.
He asks a lot of me, and I do it because I love him. he will also do just about any crazy thing I ask him to do because he knows I do a lot for him.
He buys me gifts because he loves me, not because he's about to be in trouble.
His only rules in our home are "Don't blow yourself up, and try not to get arrested." Those are my rules for HIM. He gets a bit hair-brained
Honesty, thoughtfulness, creativity, compassion, empathy, and integrity are the governing forces in his life.They come naturally to him, and even if
that means stepping out of the norms of society, he will not cross the line of his morality.
He is the head of the home, but makes damn sure to remind me how much he relies on me, the heart of our home. There is never an issue that we do not
discuss in great detail, sometimes with heated debate, before acting on it. He will not do anything if he knows that I do not have his back, and vice
He knows when I'm about to fib, and politely asks me to correct myself before answering, and vice versa. Not even white lies are allowed. Complete
brutal honesty is all that is tolerated. We would rather have our feelings hurt by the truth and get over it quickly than to find out we were deceived
and begrudge each other for it.
Intimacy is important, and it's not all about sexual intimacy, either. He can feel just as close to me cuddling and pillow- talking. I am also aware
that as far as intimate relationships go, I am second only to his X Box, but that is part of his charm.
I could go on and on, but those are the major points, and I think you get the picture by now.