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Topic started on 2-12-2009 @ 11:56 AM by Regenstorm

Mother has two-year-old son snatched by social workers after refusing doctor's advice to feed him junk food


www.dailyma il.co.uk
Like many toddlers Zak Hessey was a 'fussy eater' who regularly refused his mother's healthy home cooking.

Concerned about his falling weight, his worried parents took him to see doctors for advice and triggered a shocking chain of events that led to the youngster being put into foster care for four months.

(visit the link for the full news article)


reply posted on 2-12-2009 @ 12:49 PM by AlienChaser
'They said I should just feed Zak chocolate, cakes and junk food just to get calories into him. But I objected saying that was only a short term answer and not a proper solution to his problem.
OP

She's right and it sounds like the doctors would have simply treated the symptoms and not the problem. Even though his weight was in the normal range, doctors "orders" would have had this kid eating junk food to his hearts content, indefinitely.

She was taken into a room with a nurse and social worker who told her: 'We would like Zak to go into foster care to assess how he feeds.

'You have legal rights but be warned if you oppose this we will go straight to court and have all your parental rights taken away.'
OP

So no, you really don't have any rights or choice in this matter

Mr Hessey added: 'People need to be aware if they go to hospital for help this is what can happen to them and their children.'

~snip~

A spokesman for Chesterfield Royal Hospital said: 'At all times our concern was for Zak and whilst we understand and appreciate Mr and Mrs Hessey's distress Zak's welfare was paramount and we believe we acted in his best interest.'
OP

Once again we are at the mercy of government intrusion into our lives, because as we all know, government can solve all problems. This so called doctors solution was to feed the kid junk food and call social services. I wonder how much he charged for that? [/sarcasm]

It would be funny if it wasn't so terrifying.


reply posted on 2-12-2009 @ 01:06 PM by MessOnTheFED!
reply to post by pieman



You hang on just a minute.. While i realize that the civil services are an important thing, they do help many children in need, they are apparently putting themselves up on a pedestal. Just a little higher than us common folk. Fortunately for us them not paying close enough attention to the kid is not our problem here. Our problem is thes social workers being given complete rule over our own parenting skills. They aren't infallable. They make mistakes and this is just one of the many that they make on a regular basis..

MessOnTheFED!



reply posted on 2-12-2009 @ 01:48 PM by pieman
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so you think that they should just believe parents who say they aren't neglecting their children? that'll work, because we all know that the freaks that neglect their children normally just admit to it immediately.


reply posted on 2-12-2009 @ 02:12 PM by AlienChaser
Originally posted by pieman
reply to
post by MessOnTheFED!



so you think that they should just believe parents who say they aren't neglecting their children? that'll work, because we all know that the freaks that neglect their children normally just admit to it immediately.



Somehow I doubt that the parents who are neglecting their children are bringing them to a doctor for assistance.

These parents showed their concern by doing just that, and the doctor should his ineptitude by telling them to feed a child of normal weight unhealthy food and passing the buck to child services.


reply posted on 2-12-2009 @ 02:14 PM by stephanies-chase
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I completely understand where you are coming from. A bad parent isn't going to admit it. But if these parents were neglecting there child then they wouldn't have even noticed or cared to take him to the Dr. to find out what was wrong. They were doing what a GOOD CONCERNED parent would do. I feel for them. Their child is a terribly picky eater. I don't believe the Dr. gave professional advice, but I will say this...if my child was starving himself you better believe mommas gonna snatch up a happy meal for the little bugger! It is ok once in a while, just not all the time. I hope the mom can find some healthy foods that the boy will like, because if she doesn't, then him being underweight isn't going to be the problem for that much longer.


reply posted on 2-12-2009 @ 02:19 PM by MessOnTheFED!
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Not at all. What im saying is maybe instead of just taking someones child away, someone who shows enough concern to take the child to the hospital, maybe they should do a little investivation instead of listening to some "expert". Maybe its time to take big brother off his pedestal and take a little responsability for ourselves. Maybe instead of looking away in neglect cases people shoud do something instead of having an "expert" hold their hand. Some people dont deserv the right to have children. I know it, you know it and they know it also.

MessOnTHeFED!

[edit on 2-12-2009 by MessOnTheFED!]


reply posted on 2-12-2009 @ 02:23 PM by Laurauk
reply to post by pieman



No you wait one moment. On one hand they are threatning to take children away from thier parents, for being over weight, or not putting thier child on a balanced diet.

Now they are threatning and taken away children from thier parents, whom refuse to feed junk food to thier children.

Can you not see how stupid this really is?

Complete nanny state. About time those in England done something about this.



reply posted on 2-12-2009 @ 02:48 PM by harvib
reply to post by pieman





so you think that they should just believe parents who say they aren't neglecting their children?


You believe the burden of proof should be on the parents? You support a system that gives the Government so much power that they can remove your children without due process or any significant reason.

Has there ever been a Government that hasn't become corrupt. History has shown that Governments have been the worse abusers of children. Often turning them into slaves or soldiers and that is if you are lucky enough to be under their "care".


reply posted on 2-12-2009 @ 03:15 PM by Unity_99
They should step in when a child is constantly receiving physical wounds, and/or there is indication, usually from the child themselves, that they have been abused sexually, AND, after an investigation the primary caregiver is responsible, or IF one of the parents is abusing the other, or IF, there is a sign of heavy hard drug use.

And for no other reason.

I have 5 boys, 4 are very thin when young and 3 still are, naturally, like my father, wirey and thin, and always underweight. They eat varying amounts ranging from eveything in site to small picky amounts to be that thin. One is plump. All have been given food choices that involve a variety of healthy and semi healthy (depending on incomes), and some treats too, kind of balanced diets. Not one of them had to go without for refusing to eat something but could in the end chose a bowl of cereal or something else depending on what we had.

Your child won't starve, as long as you offer them choices, they will chose to eat when they need, AND, if they're not being fed junk food all the time, then their own bodies will select what they need the most nutritionally. Though going through stages where they look like they arent eating much is common around 2. VEry very very common. Surprised they found a nazi doctor. All the doctors I've had here in Canada have been up to the latest info and they themselves told me not to worry and what was normal.

This had nothing to do with the child's wieght but was NWO, the leaders trying to be agents of chaos and tell us they have control.




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