reply to post by onequestion
#1 I agree, whole-heartedly. When I was growing up, my paternal grandparents and my parents grew a garden in concert, and it was part of mine
and my younger sibling's responsibility to care for it. We also raised our own pork, and every fall we had a "hog-killing," which the entire
family, (including all of the aunts, uncles, and cousins) took part in.
As the years passed, and food was cheaper to obtain than to grow, the old ways fell by the wayside.
I can still grow a garden, but all the education I had concerning hog-killing have been forgotten. Fortunately, in most parts of the Mississippi
Delta, and up in the Ozarks of Arkansas and Missourri, there are still old timers who remember the old ways, and have made it a point to teach their
children, just in case. (Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it. It's from proverbs. You look it
up. I'm too tired.)
#2 Psychology- When you grow up in an extended family on a farm, you learn how to get along, how to keep your cool, and how to manage large groups.
(some folks are just natural born leaders, and it's been my experience that there is one in every family, or one in every subgroup of a family.)
#3. Parenting. I refer to #2. If you are in a large family, or a large extended family, then you learn how to parent. You learn by experience, or
observation. (Babysitting for the same cousin, brother, sister, etc. counts as parenting). Some reinforcement and introduction of new ideas might be
a good idea during school, but it should be kept as neutral as possible. That way, you don't interfere with cultural ideals of parenting.
#4. We, as a society, need to encourage families to raise their children in the spiritual ideals of their choosing. I can only hope they are non
violent in their teachings and the children learn the path of peace.
May God, as we individually understand Him/Her, guide us in this endeavor. (Especially #1, since it's hard to do the rest if you're starving.)