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Originally posted by TrueAmerican
reply to post by Seasick
Sick and tired of being the type of female men ignore?
And you're married? What's wrong with this picture?
Now maybe if you would have said "Sick and tired of being the type of female my husband ignores," I suppose I might have just said..."Well, have you ever considered divorce?" Or if you had said the original statement and you were single, I might have understood and said "hey, maybe you should try a different kind of man."
But clearly there are some deeper issues going on here.
…I thought that was part of commitment and unconditional love.
if you put a dependence on your hubby like that, then you can drive them away even further. I know such things always drove me away with women, and the harder they try the more it drives me away.
…we live in a shallow society. The truth is that society is screwed up.
As for your husband… Don't waste time - if he isn't fulfilling your needs and there is no hope that he will, it's time to move on.
Originally posted by mblahnikluver
reply to post by SaraThustra
Originally posted by fooffstarr
Would you really want the attention of a 'man' if all he is looking for is the correct measurements?
If you are a good person in the inside you will attract like-minded people, and probably be far happier than the plastic people who like a bimbo or Fabio hanging off their arm.
Originally posted by SaraThustra
Who are you to say that in order to be a good person on the inside, you must be an ugly person on the outside. That is just plain stupid and clearly prejudiced. I have met many people who were ugly on the outside and even more ugly on the inside. Also many people who were very attractive on the outside and equally so on the inside.
I think the only people who come up with asinine logic like that are jealous ugly people who have no interest in improving themselves either way.