posted on May, 6 2004 @ 03:12 AM
I recently broke up with the first girl i feel i actually truly loved. i'm kinda over her now and i think the best way to get over her is to go out
and get laid as much as you can (seriously). Live the single life, go out and date other girls (but dont get serious). You need these things as
confidence boosters to keep your spirits high.
If it was a good break up, i strongly suggest stayinf friends with her. Dont see her too much at first, but as you feel yourself starting to get over
her try to hang out with her as friends and see how things feel. If they're still wierd just tell her that and give it a break untill you feel ready.
Obviously she is special to you and i dont think you want her out of your life altogether, and if you cant be with her romantically, at least have her
there as a friend. You wont regret it.
Also keep yourself distracted if your finding you have too much time on your hands, and keep thinking of her. Get a hobby, do volunteer work, take up
a sport/gaming activity... just as long as your mind isnt free to dwell it'll forget in time...
But keep your confidence high, remember that there are plenty more fish out there who will go for the bait.
These are the steps i went through and now me and my ex are still good friends, and although i sometimes miss the times we had, i'm enjoying my
single life too much too dwell on it... heres to many good times buddy... CHEERS!!!
p.s just noticed your from scoland, my dads from dunfermline...
[Edited on 6-5-2004 by specialasianX]