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reply posted on 18-3-2009 @ 11:01 PM by ProtoplasmicTraveler
You truly are a Super Moderator!



reply posted on 18-3-2009 @ 11:07 PM by guinnessford
reply to post by intrepid



Thank you, you are truly part of the best staff on the planet.
Anytime theres been a problem, youve all been there.
And ive been on both sides, so im not biased.
You are all doing a great job, thats why i enjoy this sight besides the tremendous amounts of knowledge ive gained.
I feel safe and comfortable cruising around, having conversations, cuz you try not to let anything thats "not a dicussion of topic" happen.


reply posted on 19-3-2009 @ 04:05 PM by Illusionsaregrander
reply to post by intrepid



I agree with this position, if all your post does is bash the OP, rather than add content about the issue, it should probably be skipped.

By the same principle, another thing I would personally like to see less of is the pole opposite of bashing, cheer leading. If all your post does is cheer on the OP, or another individual in the thread, but adds no content regarding the issue, it also should probably be skipped. With the exception perhaps of the touchy feely forums on BTS designed for that purpose.

It would be nice to see posts that focused more on the issue itself rather than a popularity contest. Either cheering for or bashing other people. I think that would go a long way to improving the content here at ATS, and it would also go a long way towards keeping threads from going off topic and from becoming so unwieldy.


reply posted on 20-3-2009 @ 11:30 AM by yeahright
reply to post by Mintwithahole.



You may have misunderstood. There's not only nothing wrong with expressing a contrary opinion, we wouldn't be having much in the way of discussion if there wasn't a counterpoint.

What we want to avoid is the one-line (or longer) bash fests that add nothing to the discussion. The fact is, the more you add to a thread you find worthless, the more you bump it for attention. Some very good topics are debate worthy, and some are preposterous. Not all will agree which are which. So find a thread in which you can contribute something meaningful (in agreement or counterpoint) and participate in those. Let the ones you see as having no value die of loneliness.

At the very least, maybe use it as an opportunity to practice your Socratic questioning chops by asking the thread author some questions. There is an off-chance you may be able to make someone see the error of their opinion that way. Saying, "this is stoopid" or something along those lines serves no purpose whatsoever.

Make sense?



[edit on 3/20/2009 by yeahright]


reply posted on 21-3-2009 @ 03:06 PM by Glencairn
It would be nice to see more people following this advice. I just read a thread that had comments like this:
"yes actually, like i said if you believe that everyone who is not of your religion or race must be slaughtered or driven from your "holy land" please do us all a favor and kill yourself."
and this:
"if you answered yes to any of these questions then please, by all means, kill yourself."
made by the same person 5 or 6 times throughout the thread. I just don't see any possible way that "if you don't agree with my opinion then you should kill yourself" is a valid contribution in arguing your position. My own opinion is that this type of comment contributes nothing and, frankly, reflects a disgustingly bad light on ATS as a whole community. I would have much rather seen logical and fact based refutations to the posts being disagreed with instead of just personal attacks, name calling, and "go kill yourself" comments.

My husband was sitting next to me reading over my shoulder and I was embarrassed to be a fellow member with the poster who was making those comments. I had nothing to do with them, yet I would be tarred with the same brush by an outsider seeing those comments and thinking that everyone here holds the same type mindset that would find that sentiment acceptable.

Please, for the love of all things good and chocolatey, stop and think BEFORE making comments of this nature that reflect on the whole of the community. Your fellow members will appreciate the consideration.

Edited to add: I was even more disturbed to see that the "go kill yourself" posts got stars! Really? Who justifies that as acceptable debate?

Take care,
Cindi

[edit on 3/21/2009 by Glencairn]


reply posted on 23-3-2009 @ 10:49 AM by Mintwithahole.
reply to post by yeahright



At the very least, maybe use it as an opportunity to practice your Socratic questioning chops by asking the thread author some questions. There is an off-chance you may be able to make someone see the error of their opinion that way. Saying, "this is stoopid" or something along those lines serves no purpose whatsoever.

Make sense?
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I agree with your point about one liners and those who have nothing better to say than, "you're stupid", etc, but I still occasionally like to call a OP out and tell him what I think of their posts,etc, specially when it includes ridiculous,racist or derogatory, or sometimes political remarks. We all occasionally like to let off steam don't we? The more people who tell the OP about the error of their ways the less likely they are to repeat posting these type of threads.
However, I do agree with most of what you say. In future when I see a distasteful or disagreeable thread I will count slowly 1 through to 10 and try to take a chill pill.
Regards.



reply posted on 23-3-2009 @ 10:55 AM by Cuhail
I've said it before, I'll say it again. Nothing brings ATS forward more than Class in Posting. The ability to pass over the chance to waste another readers time and patience and to fight for the denial of ignorance.

Good thread 'trep!
S&F
Cuhail


reply posted on 23-3-2009 @ 11:57 AM by OzWeatherman
What? Even in this case?

www.abovetopsecret.com...

But seriously, its good to see the mods are continuing to do a fantastic job around here...keep it up
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