I am unable to do this as my projections are few but numerous once they start.. that is to say.. if the conditions are right and if there is enough intent there, i WILL project..and when I do I often kind of shoot back and forth from my "body".. as it seems located astrally. So its like multiple projections and in total they can last an hour long sometimes. But as far as controlling it or doing it well enough as would be required to come get you.. i don't think i'm quite there yet.
.. or I would try, and I would find you but there are no guarantees. Like last week i projected and willed myself to meet a friend and I did, but her waking conscious self was unaware of it. However, I don't think this sort of thing is entirely possible. A friend tried to "yank" me once.. and she said I was lying in bed and like swatting at her, so either i was subconsciously too scared or perhaps it just didn't happen from my perspective.
We do these things when we are ready, when there is true intent and also confidence / lack of fear seems to help.
If iI know I can probably fall asleep and if I think i would really like to project.. i get serious with myself and tell myself "I have sleep paralysis."..like trying to convince myself this is the way it is at that point in time.. i also try to visualise the sounds and feeling from other projections to tell myself "i am in the state, and I will awake in this state".
I only started projecting last year and I probably had a strong desire to do it for a full year or more before it happened. But since i started last year, i have had many following experiences which have been interesting and productive. So i guess from my perspective I think it will happen from you when everything is in place, and you'll become a pro in no time.

