posted on Nov, 27 2008 @ 01:14 PM
Originally posted by silverflame
Has anyone betrayed your trust? How did you get that trust back? I need help I need to know that you can really trust someone after they have hurt
you. Does it always stay there the mistrust. Can you really ever get over it? Please I really need some advice.
Well I have learned that it is not fair to ask someone never to betray you. It would slow down his/her learning in life.
There are different topics to discuss in this. But well I have stopped believing I can trust anyone 100%. It's a bit hard to tell someone I don't
fully trust you. It's not really possible to fully trust anyone.
Some people are just selfish like that, they will betray you on purpose and there is nothing you can do about it. They will learn if they want to
Everyone makes mistakes. It could be to say that he/she loved you when that person was conviced thats what it was but that it was not. The mistake
could have been right there to think that this was it.
or the mistake could have been that this person thought you were the best for him/her but he/she did not know himself or herself and you well enough
back then to really know.
In my case, after saying he loved me and asking me to trust him 100%, now that I have been the best friend he ever had and helped him feeling better
he has found someone else. yayeeeee.
Can you really get over it when betrayed? Well it depends on you and if you find it really hard, the best is to just let it go... wich is what I seem
not to be able to do myself yet.