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I think it's ok to trust until the trust is violated... then THATS IT GAME OVER PERIOD.
Originally posted by BlackMustang
I have a question, is it healthy to for someone in a new relationship to continue to talk with an old flame (no kids involved)?
Should we not worry about it and trust the person?
Why do people hold on to some old flames but not all of them? Is it just in case things don’t work out?
Real one or online ones, maybe if someone can figure this out some people might have a chance with relationships actually lasting.
To me Love, communication and trust is a key to a relationship. It is a circle that without all three there is no relationship. I feel to build one’s trust up there needs to be a good source of communication between the two that are in love. 110% honesty hide nothing from each other no secretes. I can’t stress this enough but everything should be open between love one’s. If someone is keeping quiet about something then it is because they are secretly doing something they know they shouldn’t be doing. What hurts most that they know it and try to keep it from their spouse.
Emotional infidelity can start at any time and so be careful and put more effort into communicating with the one you say you love if not you may need to ask yourself the question, do I really love them.
So if you can’t be 110% open (don’t hide anything) leave so they can find happiness else were.
And if they can’t be 110% open with you. You need to leave so you can find happiness.
To me love is putting your heart on the line and it is worth every moment shared, every feeling expressed, and every touch given.
Look into the eyes of the one you love and tell them how special they are and give them the same kiss you gave them when you first met