reply to post by chrhenn32
I hear you and I am a female. The mother of a 30 year old man that had to go and marry and have a child with a woman who is incapable of loving
anyone but herself and coming from a really bad family background.
I swear you men really don't think with the head on your shoulders and that will be your downfall.
My son has gone through hell and back both financially and emotionally with his marriage to "the daughter in law from hell".
After a year of marriage "the blonde princess" decides to take off with the baby (their daugher/our grand daughter) and get a divorce lawyer. My
son had been the one raising their daughter as mom was out "at school" five nights a week (come to find out a couple nights she was out at bars
singing). Did you know that if the woman takes off with your child that is legal and okay, the court sees that baby as her property and not a part
of you. If the man were to take off with the baby it would be kidnapping..........hmmmm two sets of rules
In short my son has to now hand over 42% of his paycheck and gets to see his daughter every other weekend, unless of course mom gets tired of having
her then she calls my son who gladly will take his daughter whenever she snaps her fingers as any additional time with his daughter is a precious
48 hours every other week is called joint custody. In the meantime the woman can then try to alienate the child from her father and his family by
all the malicious and deceptive game playing that woman are so good at.
If you are a young man out there contemplating marriage, STOP and THINK long and hard before you sign on that dotted line. I suggest living with your
princess for a year or two first.
Marriage is a legal and binding contract and right now in 2008, in the State of Illinois that contract is all in favor of the woman as far as if you
have a child together. The courts will not interview or talk with the child to see which parent is preferred, the court looks upon the child as a
property of the woman's and the man is secondary as is the "paternal" grand parents. Your child may be exposed to different men coming into and
out of mommy's unstable life, your child may be exposed to all kinds of things and THE COURT WON'T CARE, THEY ARE TOO BACK LOGGED TO GIVE A POOP.
Your child / children will be just another statistic.
So many children now are living in "single parent" households and not because the man is running off, it's because many young women now just want
to "have the baby experience" and raise that baby in a single household.
Lawyers, we shelled out $8,000 for Jeffrey Levine in Chicago because he advocated "Father's Rights" (wrote a book). Well, as I said my son ended
up shelling out 42% of his paycheck and gets "joint custody" which is 48 hours every two weeks.
I have seen my son physically and mentally abused by his "ex wife" and "the courts", "the law" do nothing about it. But, if he were to talk
back to or push his ex-wife the way his ex-wife pushes and slaps him, he'de be put in jail. Woman can also abuse men, but the man had better not
touch the princess...........two sets of rules and woman get the special treatment.
Many years ago our laws were set up to protect the weaker woman but woman are no longer weak. It's time we had the exact same set of rules for men
ATS is about conspiracies and I think this is another one against men. The perpetrators are many young woman and our outdated laws and so many young
men out there are totally naive when it comes to this most important aspect of their lives.
Before I met my now ex daughter in law I use to read newspaper stories about "the poor young girl killed by an enraged lover/husband" and I would be
really upset at how someone could hurt another human like that, well now I know some men are pushed too far and there's two sides to every story. I
read a newspaper stories now about "poor abused killed woman" and the first thought that comes to mind is the poor guy was probably pushed too far
too often and other then killing the bitc_ he would get no relief.
Unless you've gone through this experience you don't realize how unfair our laws are and the laws in Illinois are in favor of the woman.
[edit on 23-8-2008 by ofhumandescent]