What about all the guys that get someone pregnant and leave them?

Black, white, Asian, Hispanic(so on),male, female=human.

Human=mistakes, crime, evil, war, greed, psychos, good, loving, generous, charitable.

Need I say more? As a RACE, we have good and bad in every single subgroup. It is far out ridiculous for you to put the blame on all of a group because of little, some, or even most.

Love and peace will only come when we put these things aside and start loving each other for who we are.

[edit on 22-8-2008 by ParaFreaky]

Originally posted by Ahabstar
Which pretty much is God saying okay since you ate of the tree I am going to give a messed up punishment. You will both have needs and desires and require cooperation to meet them but yet I will cause a deep animosity to make it hard to get along.

...and was it not Eve that was tempted to eat the fruit of the tree first then get Adam to eat of it as well? See it all started with a woman.

sorry but I just could not resist saying this.

Okay I need to go and calm down. Thanks guys for listening and please really do think carefully what could happen to you. God Bless

Originally posted by chrhenn32
He looses his job laying carpet and in the middle of his search for another job, she flat out divorces him. This is the scene I see all the time. Most don't commit suicide though.

Ah, but that isn't a "Nature of Woman" thing. It is that woman (and many like her) that are applying poor solutions to problems. Much like the consumerism mantra of if breaks or is defective, pitch it and get a new one.

I have been light in tone but this could easily become a deep subject in psychology and philosophy areas.

Without expounding a multi-post (because 8000 characters won't cover it--nor will my lazy typing) explaination. The key is communication. Without quality the quantity really won't matter except when there just simply isn't enough to talk about in a relationship.

Needs are different for different people. It is easy for a guy to say "All women are crazy, it is just a matter of finding the crazy that you can deal with." but that isn't the whole story.

For women there is a need to be an individual and not someone's wife, mother, lover...there is a balance of give and take that not everyone plays with on the same scale...again communication.

Of course I am avoiding problm relationships of abuse, neglect, etc. There is also western world ideas verses traditional cultures hence the increase in mail-order brides.

We can easily call ourselves causalities of the war between the sexs because the new roles haven't been fully figured out between the idea of individualism and following the expected role for a woman that they are taught as children coupled with the high number of single-parent children are now adults and do not have the traditional family experience to call upon.

As for the perfect woman for me, I know she is out there somewhere, but often times I rather enjoy the fact that she is not here. Not that I sleeping around or even dating anyone...but I am enjoying that hermit lifestyle and lack of responsibility of having to clear agendas with someone else before doing them.

I have known and dated some very decent and caring women. I've also had my heart ripped out, spit and stomped on. My feeling is I'd rather go into a cage match with a gorilla then relive some of those moments.
Please forgive me Lisa. I never knew how lucky I was.

[edit on 8/22/2008 by jpm1602]