What about all the guys that get someone pregnant and leave them?

Black, white, Asian, Hispanic(so on),male, female=human.

Human=mistakes, crime, evil, war, greed, psychos, good, loving, generous, charitable.

Need I say more? As a RACE, we have good and bad in every single subgroup. It is far out ridiculous for you to put the blame on all of a group because of little, some, or even most.

Love and peace will only come when we put these things aside and start loving each other for who we are.

[edit on 22-8-2008 by ParaFreaky]

reply to post by TheRooster

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Heh, there is quite a bit of the old ultra-violence in there. Actually quite a lot...enough for Mortica Addams to use as bedtime stories when the the Sylvia Plath poems get stale.

reply to post by Soulstone

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I know what you mean and I too have been in different places. I guess I just am scared for you guys out there and just want you to be careful. That is all.

...and was it not Eve that was tempted to eat the fruit of the tree first then get Adam to eat of it as well? See it all started with a woman.

sorry but I just could not resist saying this.

reply to post by Ahabstar

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Thats the thing about what you said of Genesis 3:16. Man was to protect and take care of his family. That is gone since the dawn of technology. Women no longer need men for such things so now they can play.

reply to post by chrhenn32

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There's nothing wrong with that, but haven't you considered there's much greater and more obvious threats? Shouldn't we all look out for one another? The day that happens seems to be the day the world stops turning...

WE are the root of all evil; humans. We are also the root of good. The only way to bring us together and get over our violence is to put these differences ASIDE.

reply to post by chrhenn32

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I am going to assume that you are "in between" relationships.

That's all!

reply to post by violet

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you need to re-read what I wrote because I don't think you get it.

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Your not that drunk because you talk perfectly clear. But couldn't it be jealousy that has brought us to conflict because of women's 'I am a woman hear me roar' power trip and over use of their power that we can't trust them to be around other men?

reply to post by ParaFreaky

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Yes that makes sense but again I only see what I see and hear. A neighbor of mine named Tom st***** killed himself when his wife divorced him and took his kids away. He was an average Joe kind of guy and really friendly neighbor. He looses his job laying carpet and in the middle of his search for another job, she flat out divorces him. This is the scene I see all the time. Most don't commit suicide though.

Well, we haven't quite become Cherry 2000 in the way men and women get along. But it is a pretty cool movie if you look at the themes expressed and implied as opposed to the acting, lines, direction, editting....

No really, it isn't that bad of a film.

Some scenes to watch for are the real women at the bar and how after the main character has spent time with a real woman his fantasy life with Cherry just wasn't enough.

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Maybe I should have mentioned that. No I am not in any relationship and nor I don't want too. I have lived with people who have and I have many friends that are married and no longer married and I have family in same boat. I was hoping the readers would take time reading the articles and the examples I have written at the top of the discussion. It explains my dilemna and fear.

reply to post by VernonBC

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It is also the woman named Delilah who tricks Sampson out of deceipt like we experience today.

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But how can we when women all over this country are seeking divorces left and right and pulling family away. How many kids have to grow up with single or new fathers? Damn it pisses me off when I have to see that.

Okay I need to go and calm down. Thanks guys for listening and please really do think carefully what could happen to you. God Bless

I've never met my father; he left my mother when I was 2. He left because was on serious drugs; he loved his children and my mom and didn't want to drag us down with him. My mother is no manipulator.

Compare the marriage problems to the rest of the problem in the world; there IS no comparison.

Besides, you hear more sob-love stories from the femmes than the guys most of the time. Not to put down those poor guys you're talking about. Just the mellow-drama.

We are ALL afflicted with heartache at one point in our lives.

Well that's the drunken problem, the bigger roar is what five pints adore. We can't trust anyone with too much power, so goes love, social, political etc.

Ah, but that isn't a "Nature of Woman" thing. It is that woman (and many like her) that are applying poor solutions to problems. Much like the consumerism mantra of if breaks or is defective, pitch it and get a new one.

I have been light in tone but this could easily become a deep subject in psychology and philosophy areas.

Without expounding a multi-post (because 8000 characters won't cover it--nor will my lazy typing) explaination. The key is communication. Without quality the quantity really won't matter except when there just simply isn't enough to talk about in a relationship.

Needs are different for different people. It is easy for a guy to say "All women are crazy, it is just a matter of finding the crazy that you can deal with." but that isn't the whole story.

For women there is a need to be an individual and not someone's wife, mother, lover...there is a balance of give and take that not everyone plays with on the same scale...again communication.

Of course I am avoiding problm relationships of abuse, neglect, etc. There is also western world ideas verses traditional cultures hence the increase in mail-order brides.

We can easily call ourselves causalities of the war between the sexs because the new roles haven't been fully figured out between the idea of individualism and following the expected role for a woman that they are taught as children coupled with the high number of single-parent children are now adults and do not have the traditional family experience to call upon.

As for the perfect woman for me, I know she is out there somewhere, but often times I rather enjoy the fact that she is not here. Not that I sleeping around or even dating anyone...but I am enjoying that hermit lifestyle and lack of responsibility of having to clear agendas with someone else before doing them.

reply to post by chrhenn32

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Since most of us don't have the time and energy to go into the thousands of reasons that you are as wrong as any person could possibly be about any subject in the history of this and any other world, I will say this:

You are 100% correct!

Whatever you do, stay away from all women.

You'll be safe, so will they.

It's a win win!

Edit to add: Stay clear of churches too, just to be safe.

[edit on 8/22/2008 by schrodingers dog]

I have known and dated some very decent and caring women. I've also had my heart ripped out, spit and stomped on. My feeling is I'd rather go into a cage match with a gorilla then relive some of those moments.
Please forgive me Lisa. I never knew how lucky I was.

[edit on 8/22/2008 by jpm1602]