If a member dies?

Hieee, I am going to just say that I love you all, and this site is the best!
I have found many wonderful friends here!

I sometimes ponder the thought, not to get everyone sad but, what if one of our fellow friends on here passes away, or comes up missing, and we never knew where they have gone off to?

Has it ever happened before?

How would someone know this?

What should I do to let everyone know I am no longer here?

Give my password to someone closest and get a relative to notify them maybe, I dunno!

Well, I am sure that everyone will know something is wrong if I miss a few days since i am always on!

Have a party in my name, if you will, and think about me!

You guys are the greatest! *cries*




[edit on 6/23/2008 by Givenmay]

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I have also wondered about this before, especially when members suddenly disappear, are they dead, are they moving on, are they busy etc etc? How would we ever know?

If you disappear we will have a big ATS funeral for you! lol

[edit on 23-6-2008 by _Phoenix_]

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Well, it is something to think about!

I would just hate to be worried about someone and never speak to them again, you know?

reply to post by Givenmay


I would hate for something to happen to you Given and not know about it.

And yes, we would so have a party in your honour ..... it would be funky

reply to post by funky monk


Right on Funky, A chat party for me?
I love you honey!
...same for you sweety!

[edit on 6/23/2008 by Givenmay]

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awww, dont cry Given, I love

I don't know about you guys, but I started wondering about this after Enrikez posted that bodies thread.

I am really seriously worried about him.

What if he wasn't lying. I hope to god he was lying....

He hasn't signed on since he posted that.....and the thing is...i know what it feels like to see someone die and not be able to say anything....jeez....i really hope he's okay....

[edit on 6/23/2008 by Mad_Hatter]

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Isokay Mad lol, he has been in chat this whole time!

I really do not think he is serious!

Love you Mad one!

[edit on 6/23/2008 by Givenmay]

well thank god. that's all i have to say.

it just struck home on a certain note...that's all...don't really wanna talk about tho.

And personally, i don't think it's funny to have people worry about you like that....but i'm not mad or anything.

Well...I am Mad you know.....haha..

[edit on 6/23/2008 by Mad_Hatter]

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Worry about who Mad?

Me or En?

If it is me, I had to get this out!

No harm done, this is not directed to me, its to everyone!

I was referring to Enrikez.....should I be worried about your lovely self 'may?

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No Mad, unless I croak at the house naturally!

I tend to not go anywhere for the simple fact I am afraid something will happen to me!

This has me thinking alot too. Awwww Gm...cries*..cant loose you. I really think it should be funky for us gm..as he is one of our babes, trustworthy, and one of us. Nods* Funky? how would you feel about this?


[edit on 23-6-2008 by nuts!]

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Yes, Nuts but, I have thought about you the same way!
I would hate for you to disappear and not know anything doll!

...it has to happen oneday, you know?

I love you bunches!



[edit on 6/23/2008 by Givenmay]

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I feel good about it nutty one - I can certainly keep passwords saved, actualy until the time they are needed Im sure that I would forget about them lol, for the record Id trust you with my password nuts! and Given nods*

How would you guys know when one was dead though?

I'm not following here.

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That is the whole point En, I am wondering what we should do to let the others members know, if we do die!

...any thoughts?

ATS Members are not allowed to "go awaY". :shk:


You must check in at least weekly and let us know how you're doing.

If all is well, then we'll celebrate with you, if you down or having problems then we're here to listen and lend support.


I Love You Guys !!!

Ive always thought about this.. Not even with just ATS/BTS, but in general with any Online friends i have.

The only solution I see is to let us know why your gone. I know things happen and you might not have Internet or a PC, but theres enough internet cafe's out there for you to jump on real quick and let people know why you haven't been on. ..At least that way it would be less worrying for the members who are missing you!

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I agree 100% Ele, if anyone does have an troubles what so ever let us know, please!

We are a big family on this site, and we care alot about eachother!