Public schools should teach many things, including biology. Sex education is an answer from the public school system addressing the problem of teen
pregnancy. This is due to parents lack of sex education at home. Baby boomers parents had the notion that simply discussing sex with their children
would cause them to want to experiment sexually.
And the Baby Boomer sensibilities are a direct carry over of religious views that Sexual Experimentation is sinful and wrong. It is a parent's
presumption over their teenager's decisions, as well as an attempt to impress a shame of sex upon teenagers that they should carry with them for the
rest of their lives.
While it is advisable for parents especially to dispense sage advice and attempt to guide their young adults towards decisions which won't propagate
a lifestyle detrimental to them, self-individuation is instinctual and is evinced by people learning "THE HARD WAY". It is this instinctual
curiosity which is snuffed and suffocated through the means of religious fear of God's displeasure, or fear that Sin will land you in hell.
Before industrialization, many children grew up witnessing mating and birth between various farm animals. Most understood that copulation equals
birth. Adequate birth control methods were not even a viable option. Young boys and girls were often married around the same time that they became
sexually aware.
None of which is inherently bad. However, then you follow it with this, in an attempt to link the above with BAD things that should not be done.
Men were allowed to beat their wives and children.
Then followed again by something which is not inherently bad, save for what Evangelism puts forward.
They were also allowed to have affairs.
After all, if they were ALLOWED, that means their spouse was alright with it. Unless you are also meaning to link the above with the below, which
would tend to negate "ALLOWED" since women had no say. However, in a common day stance, if a spouse "ALLOWS" their significant others to be
promiscuous, there is nothing inherently wrong with it beyond what religion states.
Women had very little to no rights back then. Marriage became the only viable option for a woman. Virginity became an important commodity for any
woman who wished for financial security. Hence morality was a requirement, not a choice.
This was, of course, before the sexual revolution and birth control. Now women have the option of promiscuity if they so decide to pursue it. Women
have better option for self-individuation.
In an age of STDs and unwanted pregnancies, teenagers need to make choices and their parents should make sure that they are well equipped to make
proper choices.
Agreed on both counts. Parents need to be informative for their progeny, and they need to allow Teenagers to make choices; even ones the parents
don't agree with or differentiate from the families officiated religious views.
Today’s teenager no longer needs to marry at a young age.
No, they don't. But if that is their decision, and they accept the consequences for it, then the choice falls to them.
They should be focusing on education and training to prepare for adulthood. Yesterday’s teenagers were no more prepared for adulthood at 15 than
today’s are. The difference, is yesterday’s teenagers had to take on an adult role early due to necessity rather than choice. Today’s teenager
has more leisure time and less adult supervised time. This can lead to sexual experimentation at an early age.
People overall have more leisure time, the amount of leisure time is irrelevant to the topic at hand. Sexual Experimentation is not an inherently bad
thing, especially if one is prepared to experiment.
Parents should teach their own moral codes to their own children.
Yes and no. Parents should inform their children of the various options that religion provides, rather than limit their children to the same moral
code they follow themselves. This promotes individuation and self-empowerment through providing options rather than propaganda.
The public school system should not be involved in teaching anything more than basic biology when it comes to sex. Many parents are just too lazy to
be that involved with their own children.
Both of these responses contradict each other. I will agree that Parents require a stronger role in sexual education, however, the firmly ingrained
awkwardness inherited through generations of Evangelist and Puritan teachings tend to hamstring most parents from being effectual tutors on the matter
of sex.
Parents need to realize that by not talking to their children about sex, they are making a choice to be young grandparents. It should be up to the
parent to actually parent their child rather than the public school system. Unfortunately, too many parents are so sorely lacking in that department,
the public school system has had to intervene in that aspect.
As before, agreed. Parents do require a more active role in informing their children of the options. However, if you propose that parents teach
their children only abstinence, then I am for the public school system usurping your rights as a parent.
Limiting the choices of your young adult will not defer their natural need for curiosity and self-determination, and will only compound future
problems.
[edit on 17-4-2008 by TheColdDragon]