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reply posted on 14-12-2007 @ 08:49 AM by Cuhail
reply to post by Thurisaz


This WASN'T about leaving a kid in a suffocatingly hot car. She was 15 feet from the car. The cop was having a bad day and made an example out of the woman, who did NOT park in the lot and walk away, she parked in the loading zone 20 feet from the bucket on a cold, sleety day. The female cop ranted at her about how she was sick of people putting their kids in jeopardy on her watch. She (the cop) was yelling at the woman so much that the children, who were witnessing this, backed away from the cop and so the cop didn't even notice them. The woman called her husband, who was 5 minutes away, and he told her not to say anything, he'd be right there. She shut up (which resulted in the obstructing justice charge) and waited. Then she was handcuffed and put into a police car and driven away while the 3, fourth grade children still went unnoticed. Dad arrived and picked up the kids, talked to the extra, responding officers who were still there and realized his wife really was taken into police custody as was his two year old little girl, who was still in the car being guarded by police until DCFS arrived (or something like that).

This isn't a case of endangering a child. This is a case of a police officer taking out her aggression on a shopper. I just watched an interview with the parents (It's a local story for me) and they're pissed! They want an apology and they especially want some action from the police department to allay their kids fear of policemen, which now exists.

This was WRONG!

Crestview Police STILL have no comment.

Cuhail



reply posted on 14-12-2007 @ 09:18 AM by Areal51
Originally posted by greeneyedleo
reply to
post by Thurisaz


Why on earth would she feel the need to LOCK her car, if it is [really] only a few feet away in her site? That makes no sense.


It makes sense to me. If she knew that her back was going to be turned to her car and her children, it makes perfect sense. Most folks lock the doors when they are INSIDE the car, so I don't see any problem with the Mom's actions at all.


reply posted on 14-12-2007 @ 09:29 AM by Areal51
reply to post by greeneyedleo



After reading this it makes even more sense what the mother decided to do. Some cops are just stupid beyond belief. If the cop were really concerned he should have just kept an eye on the 2-year old to watch out for possible burglars or kidnappers. If Mom had gone back inside Wal-Mart the arrest would have been much more understandable to me. I don't condone leaving children unattended in cars at all, but given the circumstances with sleeting rain and possible slippery parking lot, Mom did the right thing to address her concerns of falling with her youngest child by putting the child in a relatively safe and warm environment. All Officer Friendly had to do was make sure that there was no foul play.


reply posted on 14-12-2007 @ 10:10 AM by Cuhail
reply to post by rmj1969




Whoah there, buddy. I understand your sentiment, but, let's not start name calling. I disagreed with his post as well, but, we don't respond like that here.

Welcome to ATS, where thousands of opinions dwell in a great place to air them. Nicely.


I give her and her husband props and I hope that the Crestwood PD gets sued. Tell them that I support them.
Cuhail


reply posted on 14-12-2007 @ 10:28 AM by Umbrax
Also in recent news...

Baby hijacked in car theft
Car Left Running With Child Inside Gets Stolen
Police find car stolen with baby in it

Here is a local story that I'll quote from.


www.cbc.ca...

Girl, 2, dies after getting stuck in car window

In what police are calling a "tragic accident," a two-year-old Calgary girl died Tuesday after getting her head caught in the power window of an SUV.

...

The girl and her six-year-old brother had been left in the Chevrolet Blazer with the engine running as their mother stopped at an office building to run an errand around 9 a.m., Calgary police said.

When the two-year-old, who was in the back seat, started crying, her brother unbuckled her from her car seat. He then fell asleep in the front seat, police said.

The young girl then began playing with the power windows.

"She climbed up to pop her head out the window, to get some fresh air or whatever," said MacLeod. "But by doing so she lifted her feet up on to the arm rest, subsequently stepping on the button, which released the window to go up."


Please visit the link provided for the complete story.



reply posted on 14-12-2007 @ 10:28 AM by Karlhungis
reply to post by greeneyedleo



I am with greeneyedleo on this one. I don't think we are getting the whole story here. Especially this time of year, it would be next to impossible to do what this woman said she did. Seems a bit fishy. If she is telling the truth however, this is ridiculous. If she is lying and locked her child in while she went shopping, she got what she deserved.


reply posted on 14-12-2007 @ 06:20 PM by Thurisaz
Originally posted by Cuhail
reply to
post by Thurisaz


This WASN'T about leaving a kid in a suffocatingly hot car.

This isn't a case of endangering a child.

This was WRONG!


Firstly, I posted the information to support what I originally stated, that in Australia this issue is treated very seriously for the reasons I stated.

I posted the statistics to show that children do die from being left in cars.

You consider this is not a case of child endangerment with respect to the circumstances of the incident.

However, it seems to me, this approach is conditional. Certain conditions negate or justify the risks. Weighing up a situation to choose the lesser risk. eg: Not taking your child out in the cold weather.

Sure, it is a judgement call, but it is still a risk.

Would I take the risk? NO. I wouldn't.

Guess I am from the old school. Being organised as a Parent to see a need, whether that is smokes or buying gas and planning for it in advance to suit my priorities. My first priority is the welfare and safety of my Children.













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reply posted on 14-12-2007 @ 11:16 PM by Cuhail
Kids die of a million things.

They die in un-monitered pools. Sometimes in monitored ones. They die walking down the street, on their way to school. In the school. After school. Riding their bikes. At home. Away from home. In the car. Visiting grandparents. Playing with daddy's gun. Playing with mommie's gun. In wells. In caves. In malls. In hospitals. In the trunks of cars. At their parents hands. At their teacher's hands. At a stranger's hand. At a friends hand.
How are you going to argue that leaving a child sleeping in a locked car on a rainy, sleeting, cold night-20 feet away, while you take a picture, the most irresponsable thing you've ever heard? Good grief! Our kids are going to be neurotic and trembling for their whole life if we don't stand up to fear and live. The police, in this case don't help. They aren't protecting the child by doing this? Noticing what is going on and keeping a good eye on the situation is what they need to do, not create a new situation and then exasperate it.

The "cops are pigs" sentimentality has little place here either. I am good friends with quite a few cops. They aren't all just "Pigs". They are people, trained to react in certain ways to suppress an escalation of chaos, in certain situations. I've seen my friend go from uniformed buddy, to "Cop Mode" in 0.010 of a second. It's training. Training to turn ity on, and when to turn it on and how to turn it off. Some people that don badges and guns don't reserve their "Cop Mode" for just situations that require it. They abuse it. But, it's hardly a number that requires "blanket" labeling like "Pigs suck". I've been arrested a number of times and never did I get tazed, or hit, or coerced.

Ohhhh in a perfect world....

Cuhail


reply posted on 15-12-2007 @ 05:44 PM by greeneyedleo
reply to post by Cuhail




I think bringing along the dog is an excellent idea (unless its a tiny little rat dog LOL)....and probably a better security system then an alarm or locked doors! We dont have one [right now], but I would feel much better about it having a dog in there w/ her.

Luckily, I never have to go run quick errands (ciggys, etc)....and when I pump gas and she is in the car, I pay at the pump and yes, leave her in the car. Our winters reach -30 during the day. But I never go inside the little gas station shop and leave her there. I just dont feel comfortable doing it. If others do, that is fine.

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