posted on Nov, 30 2007 @ 05:21 PM
I think you need to come to grips with your subconscious, DJ. The message is there, it is speaking to you, reaching out, begging to be heard.
I can't tell you what it means. I can tell you that you have choices. You even have choices in how you might interpret the dream. All of this is
healthy and normal. For example the nocturnal visitor may be a form of guidance regarding your own destiny, the relationship you have with your
husband, or the path you chose regarding past relationships.
The individual that manifested itself is highly significant. How lucid was the visage? In Color? How animated? Were you particularly impressed by
any facial expressions, gestures, mannerisms, clothing, time/setting, etc.? All of these variables will help you place and assemble pieces of your
puzzle into a visual story with a given dynamic and discernment. Also - how confident are you in remembering what happened in the dream? Can you
replay it in your mind even now, almost like a video? Or is it rather foggy, rapidly fading upon awakening? Also;
Don't read too much into the "topology" of the individual. I.e., there may be less that ties the specific circumstances of your past with this
person than with the 'message' he may be carrying to you.
Also - if I'm not mistaken, your avatar in recent postings was one of the quite beautiful and exotic Natalie Wood, was it not?
If you check, I think you'll find you had your dream on the anniversary of her death in 1981 - or close anyway. It may mean nothing. Or...
Best wishes, my dear...
[edit on 11/30/2007 by Outrageo]