Originally posted by Nicotine1982
I really can't imagine a situation where women have to rape men for sperm. Not saying that it couldn't happen, but honestly, as a woman, go out and
ask 10 guys if you could copulate with them for the sake of reproduction, and you will get between 8-10 guys say yes. Men are different from women,
in the fact that they are not generally brought up to be afraid of sexual contact. As wrong as it sounds, even the most unattractive woman can find
SOMEONE to be intamate with, while men "Get Lucky" when they find a mate.
[edit on 31-1-2007 by Nicotine1982]
I guess I must be weird then,
. I have actually turned down sex for fear of HIV or AIDS. IF this disease wasnt so rampant, I must admit I would
be alot more sexually active. say 40 years ago, Id probably be very much the typical male,
. If you werent at least brought up to be aware of the
possibility, then Id say your parents did a poor job of educating you on sex. Having sex with as many women as possible doesnt make you "the man"
and it isnt worth dying by the time your 30 of HIV because you had multiple partners.
There is also the issue of fathering children at such a young age. How can you provide for a son or daughter and a wife if you cannot provide for
yourself? Of course many boys dont even put that much thought into it. They simple dont care because they run away from their responsibility. I cant
count how many girlfriends I have had who are simply looking for a responsible male role model for their child because some loser kid ran out on
them. I hate to sound cold, but why should I be stuck caring for a child that isnt mine? I have no qualms about being a father when the child is
mine, but I dont intend to be a surrogate father to every loser's kid on the face of the planet.
So here is my advice to you younger guys, if you are only looking for a sexual encounter, BAG IT.
Otherwise your going to be a childhood
father. Do you really want to give up your own youth to care for a kid when you yourself have not even lived your youth yet? Kids shouldnt be having
kids. If you are looking to be a father, then find a woman you REALLY
love and want to spend your life with and have children with her,
. Dont be afraid of commiting your life to her if you really love her. Please dont accidently father a kid and run out on her, you
only leave her with heartache and grief.
For you young women, go to college and get youself firmly grounded in this competitive world. Make sure you have the means to provide for your
children when you choose to have them. This isnt the dark ages anymore and you have your whole life to be a mother. Live a little. I'm not going to
preach about women so much because they tend to be the responsible ones in this situation.
Anyway, I really believe we as a society need to change the way we picture the way men should behave. Being a tomcat doesnt help anyone and only
perpetuates fatherless children.