posted on Oct, 25 2003 @ 10:20 AM
Originally posted by JediMaster
Jedi has the same problem. I can talk to anyone but her.
Well let's see if I can help, if she goes to your school (if you are in one) just try to talk to her,even if its a simple "hi". Try your best to be
sauve,chicks like that. Don't talk to her about anything stupid or disgusting. Try to startoff a convo with a greeting and a litle "Hi I'm so and
so" and tell a bit about yourself but not too much. And PAY ATTENTION TO EVERYTHING SHE SAYS,everything even if its dumb listen. But if your generaly
shy around everyone make friends with other girls your not interested in, that should work.
Now if Jedi can follow his won adivce...
wow spoken like a true clueless guy. try to act suave? i got news for you, about 90% of all females see right through that even at the highschool
level and generally makes for a bad impression as you wind up "changing characters" later and start acting like yourself. you either have a smooth
quality to you or you do not, its not something you can fake and get away with. and the other 10% you dont really want to talk to anyway unless you
like incredibly obtuse females, you'd be better off talking to a rock.
although i'll give you points for telling him to listen, its the most important thing anyone can do. again you cant fake interest or attention for
long and get away with it. eventually the real you comes out and she'll see how you acted before as just that, an act and females are not fogiving
about that crap.
some people are shy and some females like shy guys, in fact for some its a turn on, i never had a problem getting the girls i was interested in 90% of
the time. of course i never put on an act to be "sauve". lol
be realistic, be yourself, and introduce yourself. and BE HONEST. say "hey i'm (insert name here) and i've seen you around, mind if we talk?"
simple honest, and usually effective. or some variation thereof will do. remember, dont be afraid because about the worst that can happen is she
simply says no thanks. at least then you'll know whether or not to move on or stalk her until she gets a court order to keep you away. (kidding!)
women do NOT like acts, bull#ting or fakery, trust me, i've seen my friends make total fools of themselves.