Originally posted by prophetmike
There is ONE problem. I got into a little trouble with the police (VERY minor problem) and I think that is also the reason why she hasn't talken to
me as much.
I don't know if I went into this earlier... (I may have forgotten) but before this incident, we used to talk (still rarely) but at least we talked.
After I returned to school (I was suspended for 2 months), we haven't spoken AT ALL.
What I want to do is show her that I'm not an EVIL person without acting stupid. Also, the fact that I'm shy is yet ANOTHER obstacle in my path.
I want to change. Does ANYONE have advice?
EDIT: Today in school, we were put to work together in a group.
Is this a clue that I should make a move?
[Edited on 17-11-03 by prophetmike]
you sound like my kind of kid.
Hell, i might adopt you, that stunt alone pushed you in the cool book by my standards.
Just look at her, cock your head and say, look,
I like you. wanna go out and catch a movie and dinner?
And if she says no, just tell her, well, i never took you for being a stuck up bitch.
if she says yes, bring some condoms.
You HAVE to be the man. HAVE to. if you do not, you will have regrets. and they suck.
Just keep asking her. trust me it works. be like, hey, want to go here, do this, what do you like doing.
do it in a suave manner, not an annoying manner.
act like it doesn't matter, and that you're down for the fun itself, not to try and get in her pants, like everyone always does. and trust me,
you'll be hitting it within 3 weeks of hardcore dating.
u2u me if you need some up to date advice.
good luck, and drop the shy #. it's not doing anything but hurting your game.