Originally posted by Peace
Here in lies your problem, and solution. I don't know how old that makes you. But the legal drinking age in the US sucks, you only have to be 18 here
in the Uk, I've been going to pubs since I was 16. My advice is to get the girl drunk, have a drink yourself and you will find things a lot, a lot, a
lot easier. Trust me.
No offence or anything but this is Bad Advice for many reasons! First of all even if the Girl you're after would be willing to get drunk with you,
it doesn't do much good when you're still too shy to ask her out in the first place. Second, let's say you manage to get the date and you spend it
getting tanked with her it will only lead to trouble later on. If you're just trying to get laid then by all means "Here's to you!"
you're actually interested in her (and her in you), using diversionary methods in order to avoid the having to seriously get to know each other is a
waste of both of your time. I will still have to be done , not to mention that you may find out too late about an incompatibility that could have
been addressed early on without problems arising. Third, and most obvious is that it is never a good idea to depend upon a "Crutch" like drinking,
drugs, lies, games, etc. in overcoming personal problems. All you'll really get in the end is a good strong "Co-Dependant" relationship with you
"Crutch" of choice.
Prove to the girl that you have ambition, confidance and potential, but always remain humble.
This on the other hand is sound advice! It's honest(I assume anyway), Rewarding, and Real!! Believe me, what is written above is the "Secret
Family Recipe" that will get you the girl. Rich or Poor, Athletic or Nerdy does not & cannot stand up against a Confident, Goal Oriented yet Humble
Attitude when displayed. It doesn't even matter what direction you're going in most cases, just that you are self motivated and determined about
the choices you make is enough. Confident and Considerate People Demand Respect by their Actions because they appear Proud and Stable without the
need of Others to Validate it. So "Be" or "Become" that Confident yet Compassionate Self Sufficient Person that "You Know You Are!" You are in
fact Offering Yourself to this other person in hopes that they want what "You Are". So if even you cannot find within yourself reason enough to be
proud and confident about who you are, then what really do you have to offer this other person? Be supportive to Yourself and Others around you and
it will be Returned(Rewarded).