Hi my friend. Yes the 4th Chakra is the heart one, which should affect, as far as i know (and as far as my friend knew at that time), heart
Anyway, i don't think my friend actually practiced any kind of magick... as far as i recall, he knew notions about bio-energy, meditation, reiki, and
simply put all together and dabbled a little with it. I don't know if he has gone further or not, because a couple of years later we had a big
quarrel and stopped keeping in touch since then. However, no i don't think he knew anything about voodoo, also because as far as i know here in Italy
it isn't particularly studied.
My frame of mind... hmm, pretty hard to remember that. If i'm not mistaken, i saw him "performing" something behind my and the girl's back, after
which i felt quite attracted by her (but on this i'm not too sure, many years have passed and memories aren't so precise, so it is possible that i
found her attractive even before my friend's intervention). But i remember me and my friend being alone when he explained me what he had done.
Personally, i don't think it was disbelief to end our relationship, because before being left, things were going pretty well and i was quite
optimistic about the relationship with the girl. Much simpler, we were quite young (i was 17, and she was 1 year younger than me), and summer holidays
were pretty close... it's pretty obvious why she left me, i think
Anyway, you've pointed out a good hypotesis in saying that maybe my thoughts and intention could have triggered it all... it's a chance, indeed, but
was puzzling me most was something like "what if an external person actually manages to manipulate two people's energies in order to make them fall
Why am i wondering this? Because in that period of time i was a little "dumb" with girls... you know, shiness, tension, and so on... and i don't
think i had been particularly brilliant the day i first met that girl... but still, she wanted to see me again, so i cannot discard the option my
friend succeeded in his experiment.
@ voodoo child: well, she was a nice and pleasant girl, but as normal as i think i am. And after all, no one is ways too good for me!!!
joking, of course. Seriously, i think we were on the same level.
@ phiniks: yes, if my friend actually succeeded in his experiment, you've understood perfectly. Well, after all i think that if there are so many
love charms, love potions, love spells, hate potions and all this sort of things, then there must be some reason. Maybe all those are just legends,
but i believe every legend has its own fundaments (sp?) of truth.
[edit on 16-1-2006 by Sparhawk]