Ahhhh man. I'll say go blind, so I was not a burden on my family. With no arms and legs I would need to be tended to for daily routines, and if I
was blind, I could fend for myself. Scary though.
Stepchildren you love, however I cant imagine not loving your own kids. But being a sperm-donor does not make you a father. Raising a child makes
you a father.
Would you rather be born into a rich family or a happy family