posted on Sep, 9 2005 @ 08:40 AM
I don't think you are being unreasonable in asking him to come home before 5 or 6 in the morning. Sure, if this were an irregular, once or twice a
month thing, it would be fine, since he obviously enjoys going out with his friends. But for it to happen on a regular basis is somewhat worrying.
Honestly, from all that you have said, it just sounds as though your husband might be a little bored. Sometimes guys just want to spend time with
their mates and it can be very easy to fall into a pattern of going out and hanging out with your mates until the wee hours of the morning.
I don't think you should be worried about infidelity, since you say you trust him and it seems as though he is spending most of his time with his
friends, rather than with other women. I went through a phase about a year ago where I started spending more time with my friends than I did with my
wife, to the point where I realised I was basically being a jerk and not taking care of my priorities at home. If he doesn't come to the same
realisation soon, then I would consider talking to him about the problem. Don't accuse him of anything or he'll just get defensive. Chances are
he's probably just a little bored with the routines of his life and wants to spend a little time being one of the boys again, so to speak.