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Originally posted by worldwatcher
I'm not trying to add to your concerns about this situation Mrs D, but one night of that would have enough for me. You two have 3 kids, he should be more involved in your family life and helping you in the evenings instead of "bar hopping". Have you noticed any other odd behavior? hiding cell phone? hiding credit card statements? anything else that is setting off your alarms.
Since you've tried to get serious with him and were brushed off, you need to throw a major tantrum and tell him you want marriage counselling immediately if he doesn't change his nightly behavior, maybe that will scare him into shaping up.
be strong Mrs. D and i'm here for you if you need to vent on a more personal level.