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originally posted by: eletheia
reply to BeyondBlessed
Yes, I have tried and am currently on 5 dating apps. It has not been helping. I'm at a point where if I push myself to initiate conversationwith a female, I internally feel desperate.
If you feel desperate internally ..... then it 'shows' and it is not a good look.
So concentrate on how YOU feel inside of you and the resulting reflection will
And as far a going right for the number, I see guys doing this all the time, of course with good looks. And it works especially when they post these acts on social media as pick up advice. I'm really frustrated, downhearted, and overwhelmed. Why cant I say to a woman, you look beautiful today? I also know that in my experiencewomen seem to respond to me like if I'm a creepy guy or some old pervert.
Social media is simply that .....shallow and fake, you've heard the saying
"Fake it till you make it"?
Dont believe that good looking guys never get turned down, He's never going to
advertise his failures now is he?
In my time I have turned down a few 'good lookers' because they are shallow
and the equivelent to a cardboard cut out.
Being good looking only opens the door ...... but if you have nothing else
(integrity, personality etc) dont take your coat off you wont be staying long!!
I'm only 29 and I've been told I look 40. My last effort a woman told me "dude your like 40, go find a boring middle aged woman." All I told her was that she looked beautiful. Just one of a few bad experiences. Also get ignored and sometimes just a really weird look from woman that I try to simply talk to.
Don't diss that advice, an older woman can teach you a lot about the phyche
and insight to a woman..... and not all older women are not unattractive....
After I divorced my ex husband (one year older than myself) I only ever dated
men 10/20 yrs younger than myself.
What's that matter though at this point.