In a nut shell, I feel im out of options on how to meeta nice female to date in hope's of marriage.
About me: I'm a nice guy, a quiet guy, nothing special looks wise, and have many good qualities and am humble. Good qualities, Cliche, I know, but it
includes: honesty, kind, caring, compassionate, reasonable, faithful, good work ethic, educated, moralistic, open-minded, friendly, respectful, and a
My issue, I think stems from my lack of places to meet and talk to females. Even before this Pandemic, I have lived a really simple life. School,
work, home, Work, Home, Work, Store, Home.... and for the most part have really kept to myself.
Although, I have had the confidence to try at times to ask a woman out, or for her number when out in public. Let's just say it's always left me
feeling #ty and defeated. Never have I gotten a number to date a girl.
As I'm ending my 20's, I've been thinking alot more about this, with the mindset of losing time. Time in the sense that I've never been a looker,
and I am getting older, losing my hair etc.
I am at a loss of what I can do,to meet women, especially in these Pandemic times.
I have thought about going up to two women within the past week, both at gas stations, but the while wearing masks just makes it really awkward as you
can even see a smile. Not only that, I've found through my experience in trying to talk to females in public that people just don't want to give you
any time of day, and if you even try to small talk, people just dont want to be bothered. Factor in Covid-19, and it gets so much more difficult.
I just dont know what to do. I know I dont have the best self esteem to boot, but like I said, I do put myself out there at times, well, I did more
before Covid. I don't get treated well by women. I know I'm not a looker, although I think I'm a catch by the kind of person I know myself to be.
Before its mentioned, yes I have tried online dating and Apps, but that's basically a bad option for me and hasn't worked for years. I'm sure I get
a "no" swipe as I'm no looker, as I know I've stated before.
So that's what's on my mind. That's where I am at.
I have talked to male friends and appearantly approaching a woman and telling them they are pretty. And asking for their number is too forward. I
debated this, but that's what I'm told. So I guess in my attempts in the past I've gone about it wrong. If that's too forward, then what the hell
do I say, or do? But i guess that's only something attractive people get results with.
I ask that you only give criticism that is constructive as I already feel pathetic inside. But like I said, I have tried and have put effort to use
the options of meeting women at my disposal, (social media, online dating, apps.)
If you are still here, thank you for giving me your time and attention.