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originally posted by: JAGStorm
a reply to: XXXN3O
I miscarried twins. I was devastated at the time, but in hindsight it worked out for the best.
After it happened to me many many, soo many women came and told me it happened to them too.
I was shocked how common it is.
I think part of the problem with miscarriages is similar to mental illness.
People do not understand it and behave weird and in general don't talk about it enough.
After I miscarried I actually had relatives ask what I did, as if I caused it! I even had some people "brag" that it never happened to them. Those are the kinds of things that hurt the worst. If you could shield your partner from stuff like that, i'm sure it would really help.
It speaks volumes that you came on here for advice, and shows how much you care.
I'm proof that time heals all. I rarely think about that miscarriage anymore and there isn't one bit of sting left from it. I had beautiful healthy children after, and that is all that matters.