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originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
a reply to: CornishCeltGuy
It was just a compliment. Objectification occurs when you start treating her like an object.
originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
a reply to: CornishCeltGuy
It was just a compliment. Objectification occurs when you start treating her like an object.
Her beautiful hair was the object I guess, a beautiful work of art. Is that still okay these days then?
I'll admit I'm struggling with what's okay these days because if I believed the world of the internet I'd be a potential rapist just for complimenting beautiful hair.
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
a reply to: CornishCeltGuy
It was just a compliment. Objectification occurs when you start treating her like an object.
Her beautiful hair was the object I guess, a beautiful work of art. Is that still okay these days then?
I'll admit I'm struggling with what's okay these days because if I believed the world of the internet I'd be a potential rapist just for complimenting beautiful hair.
Well, let's be serious, humans are objects. But from what you say, she wasn't offended, wasn't uncomfortable, and your compliment seemed appropriate enough.
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
a reply to: CornishCeltGuy
It was just a compliment. Objectification occurs when you start treating her like an object.
Her beautiful hair was the object I guess, a beautiful work of art. Is that still okay these days then?
I'll admit I'm struggling with what's okay these days because if I believed the world of the internet I'd be a potential rapist just for complimenting beautiful hair.
Well, let's be serious, humans are objects. But from what you say, she wasn't offended, wasn't uncomfortable, and your compliment seemed appropriate enough.
originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
a reply to: CornishCeltGuy
It was just a compliment. Objectification occurs when you start treating her like an object.
Her beautiful hair was the object I guess, a beautiful work of art. Is that still okay these days then?
I'll admit I'm struggling with what's okay these days because if I believed the world of the internet I'd be a potential rapist just for complimenting beautiful hair.
originally posted by: seeker1963
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
a reply to: CornishCeltGuy
It was just a compliment. Objectification occurs when you start treating her like an object.
Her beautiful hair was the object I guess, a beautiful work of art. Is that still okay these days then?
I'll admit I'm struggling with what's okay these days because if I believed the world of the internet I'd be a potential rapist just for complimenting beautiful hair.
Well, let's be serious, humans are objects. But from what you say, she wasn't offended, wasn't uncomfortable, and your compliment seemed appropriate enough.
Yea, sounds like someone is too worried about offending someone by doing/saying something natural that has been done since the beginning of man.
Turn of the tv OP and hang up garlic around your house to protect you from the guilt of cultural Marxism.
It wasn't long ago I saw how religion brain washes people thru guilt, but it amazes me how politics has quietly creeped in to accomplish the same thing in a more sinister manner......
originally posted by: bender151
originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
a reply to: CornishCeltGuy
It was just a compliment. Objectification occurs when you start treating her like an object.
Her beautiful hair was the object I guess, a beautiful work of art. Is that still okay these days then?
I'll admit I'm struggling with what's okay these days because if I believed the world of the internet I'd be a potential rapist just for complimenting beautiful hair.
If you don't have any expectations beyond that, and you're complimenting an effort, then it's a compliment.
originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
originally posted by: seeker1963
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
a reply to: CornishCeltGuy
It was just a compliment. Objectification occurs when you start treating her like an object.
Her beautiful hair was the object I guess, a beautiful work of art. Is that still okay these days then?
I'll admit I'm struggling with what's okay these days because if I believed the world of the internet I'd be a potential rapist just for complimenting beautiful hair.
Well, let's be serious, humans are objects. But from what you say, she wasn't offended, wasn't uncomfortable, and your compliment seemed appropriate enough.
Yea, sounds like someone is too worried about offending someone by doing/saying something natural that has been done since the beginning of man.
Turn of the tv OP and hang up garlic around your house to protect you from the guilt of cultural Marxism.
It wasn't long ago I saw how religion brain washes people thru guilt, but it amazes me how politics has quietly creeped in to accomplish the same thing in a more sinister manner......
Star from me, I agree, hence this thread for anyone with similar societal musings to share.
Mad how it's less scary for me to compliment a man than a woman though, I complimented a guy the other day, random stranger, but gym fit pure sculptured body...
"# me how many hours in the gym do you need to get that body ffs?"
He laughed "Too many" we shook hands and went on our way.
Easier with blokes for some weird power reason I guess.
originally posted by: bigfatfurrytexan
Complimenting her hair shouldn't be an issue. Complimenting her legs certainly would be.
No one wants to have pervs leering at them like sexual pieces of meat (well...i wouldn't mind that for a change, but i digress). That is the objectification that is referred to: sex object.
originally posted by: seeker1963
I mean seriously, everything from your OP resonated to me as a dude seeing an attractive woman who he said something to, but because of the PC culture felt guilty for saying it?
FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF that! Be who you are and be honest of who you are! People who want to be free should NEVER support any movement to make speech a crime!
originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
"Oh my gosh your hair is absolutely gorgeous"
originally posted by: trollz
originally posted by: CornishCeltGuy
"Oh my gosh your hair is absolutely gorgeous"
Well, with that language, you may have given off a certain impression. No wonder she was smiling...