Look. I'm sorry. But after a lot of experience with a wide range of women... It's the #$*&@ stupid women causing ALL the problems in society! At
least, the only one that matters. Sex.
No I'm not just only being a "typical male". If it weren't for all the sex throughout the years (not protected sex, just REAL sex) none of is would be
here. Therefore since the survival of our species depends on it, it's extremely important.
It's not that "women always go for the jerk". That's only a symptom of a larger issue.
What's going on here is... i bet some of you have it on the tip of your tongue or the spark of your mind...
Yeah. That's right...
The real truth is that women are not being honest about what they want in a mate. They are not being honest with us, they are not being honest
with themselves for probably half their lives...
It's not All their fault though. They were lied to since childhood. We All were LOL.
They were given "Prince Charming", as an example of what they are Supposed to want. Because that's what every PARENT wants for their precious
daughter. Including me if I had kids. But that's not what a woman's body craves when she comes to sexual maturity.
Women Say they want a "nice" guy & to be respected at All times. They aren't allowed to say what they Really want (if they even figured it out for
themselves yet) because that would be improper, and even worse, DEGRADING... (anything other than the man begging & paying his proper Tribute amount,
and then you giving him a scrap of meat out of pity, is "DEGRADING", so we are taught)
Women want to be respected. Of course they do. We all do. But, "at ALL times"?
(i had to take a moment to laugh)
They always run off with the "guy with the dirtbike and a loud mouth". Now why is that??
They don't like being constantly mistreated either, because they eventually leave these losers too, or they get that worn out hopeless look in their
But they DO want to feel wanted. And they DO want to have FUN. Think of a roller coaster ride as an analogy for "great sex". Part of the thrill is you
feel like "holy sh# I almost could have died back there!" Apparently they like that thrill in the bedroom too, sometimes... I can't even throw a stick
(online) without hitting a few women who have a fantasy of being raped and choked (consentually of course, in a role playing scenario). Of course, I
date waaay younger than my age group since girls my age don't go for me much because I look young and I'm not always responsible with money, and it
really depends on if I happen to have a car at the moment but my point is, it could be a fad or a younger people "edgy" type of thing. But it IS
surprising to me the number of women who say this. I'm not really too big into the whole choking thing, but every male has fantasized about raping,
even if on
old school chivalry. A man of action who isnt afraid of anything, goes straight after what he desires with no shame, but he makes the woman he desires
feel like she is the only woman in the world. He has manners. But he also makes a woman swoon with his sheer Desire of her.
Listen. Deep down, women want to be "won like a trophy", "contested or fought over" or at least they want to know you are Willing to fight to keep or
attain her love.
They want to be manhandled sometimes. I can't count how many times, during private conversations, that I've heard a female say things like "sometimes
i wish a guy (i assume they mean a guy who they know, but, it usually is not specified... just "a guy". But of course they at least mean "a guy who i
happen to find attractive") would just walk up and grab me and kiss me."
Now, I wouldn't recommend that for just anyone, it's a very risky, advanced move, for the highly experienced or highly desperate. HOWEVER, it just
shows you a glimpse "what women are Really into". Every** girl wants to be ravished by a real man, Who They Are Attracted To. Which is good, really
good, because that's what we want, too. You can make yourself more attractive though, so don't worry too much about the last part for now. The
important part is, You've Been Lied To.
If you can be the perfect mix of a man who makes her feel special at all times, respected in public, and Desired in privacy (private moments can be
had in public areas don't draw such a rigid line between the two, sometimes she might Want a stranger or a friend to happen to see how badly you want
her), and you do everything it takes to take care of her, then she will not leave you, unless she is simply too foolish, too immature, or just too
inexperienced to know what she wants.
Sometimes you might be the perfect couple, but, she doesn't know it because she hasn't experienced what else is out there.
Then again, some girls Want to stay with the first guy they fall in love with or sleep with.
**The beauty of women is their complexity and variety. There will be at Least a few who will disagree with everything I say, and some of them will
even be telling the truth! And of course, we have all been through different challenges in life which have helped shape our feelings about
relationships. Obviously a woman whos been through some abuse PROBABLY does not want a man randomly grabbing and kissing her. (But don't assume
Anything with women, we can only make educated guesses) And that doesnt mean shes been abused either just because she doesnt want it or has never even
fantasized about it. That's why us men love solving puzzles. A woman is a type of 18trillion-Dimensional Puzzle.
This is just very General advice that Could possibly clear up a little confusion. We've been hearing "Nice guys finish last" ever since the Greenday
Dookie CD, BUT WHY?? Why does the nice guy have to go through several years of agonizing loneliness? Because hes been lied to.
It's not ONLY about Physical assertiveness...women have many facets to them. Many angles upon which to approach, interact with, and stimulate.
Audio/visual cues such as speech, dress, attitude, matter just as much as her physical sensations.
You gotta show her you want her by the way you talk to her, the way you behave, like opening doors, etc, the way you look at her (dont overdo it you
Just look or hold eye contact 1-2 secs longer than usual, then spend another couple of Quick seconds checking out her body, thats IT),
and theres love letters, music, gifts, dates, cute surprises and many other ways to express your desire other than JUST physically being assertive.
You also gotta know how to be Gentle... its just the other side of the spectrum is what is lacking most i think...this is for guys not getting any.
Not guys who are already Too physically assertive.
But anyway, all the other stuff is important as it builds up to and supports the physical interaction, when and if it happens.
In your quest to be more manly, don't be afriad to like "girly" things. Part of it is being comfortable in your own skin, and besides, You LIKE
girls...right? Ok, so then you like things that attract them, right? So then you like what they like. You arent afraid of what anyone will think if
you listen to Whitney Houston, Taylor Dane, Avril Levine, Kelly Clarkson, Usher etc etc. Screw them! This is between You, and all the beautiful
women(all women are beautiful!) you want to spend time with!
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