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originally posted by: MiddleInsite
a reply to: JAGStorm
For men I would say, bathe and work.
And men, remember this above all else. I cannot stress this enough. You can be right, or you can be happy. Pick one.
Ladies, love yourself first, I can't stress this enough. If you don't love yourself, you will never find a man that can fill that void. In loving yourself be perfectly ok with being single, when you have truly embraced this the men will come pouring in. Deep down, men despise needy women, the less needy you are the better. If you can make yourself happy, entertained, it will drive them crazy, trust me on this. There is nothing more desirable than a positive, empowered happy woman! (the reverse is true, there are many men that specifically look for weak, needy woman, this is why women that are abused tend to keep going for and attract the same type of people over and over)
Young ladies, do not post the your best picture in your profile/avatar/matchup sights, if anything put your worst photo up. Then when you meet a man he will be pleasantly surprised, not vice versa! I went to a 25 yr high school reunion and 95% of people looked nothing like their profile pics(in a bad way), it was shocking!
The makeup is getting crazy, I'm a woman and I have absolutely been shocked seeing some people with their makeup off for the first time, and one time I didn't even recognize a good friend! Let's get back to the more natural side of things. Believe it or not looks will fade, so do not rely on them or it will turn on you in an instant! On the same note, do not trust a man with super manicured eyebrows, I don't care what anyone says, it never leads to good things! (just my personal opinion )
Embrace femininity, no I'm not talking about being submissive yet people seem to confuse the two. I'm talking about being a true woman in all her glory, this seems to be a lost art that we need to bring back. True femininity is one of the highest powers a human can have, all it really means is being comfortable with being a Woman!!!
Okay well, better define that. Frilly, flowered, pink, clothes? Skirts? Those seem less popular now days since some states(at least one that I know of) desn't criminalize for perverts doing up-skirt phone photos. Instead are many opting for pants? I guess the yoga pants don't count, nor d the leggings that aren't covered.