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originally posted by: badw0lf
originally posted by: CulturalResilience
Only ignore the bit about being a douche if you are happy with a low notch count.
That's about the lowest POS I've read this week.
And I guess, highlights so much wrong in the world. It's all about how many women the man beds. Notches on his belt. Otherwise, he's a weak beta male, taking scraps off the alpha dogs.
I was with someone who I though was genuinely interested in me. She was housebound, in pain, unsure why. Turns out she needed spinal fusion surgery. Which she had, and within 6 months she was back to her old life, sans me, because I was nothing more than a distraction while she was all boo hoo woe is me.
I don't give a rats about notch count. And frankly, at this point, there is no such thing as love. It's all artificial lust and to keep the notch count growing, bed hopping all over the place because people are just crap.
Relationships can bite me. the entire pointless "happily ever after" bollocks can sod off...
sorry OP, it sucks to be used and then discarded... I know that all too well.
originally posted by: Martin75
a reply to: Cymru
I thought I had found my keeper too. Married bought a house and 8 years later we were strangers living in a home together. I was lucky, we bith realized. When I finally tried to have "the talk" he was relieved.
Don't stop looking for your keeper. Mine blindsided me....im a good way. But I fought hard against it, I figured why bother.
15 years later my only regret is I didn't meet him sooner.