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originally posted by: Ghost147
Not too long ago, here on ATS, homosexuality was the hot topic. Same-sex marriage was becoming recognized in the US, so naturally everyone had a lot to say regarding the topic of sexuality.
Recently there's been an influx of transgender topics here, and a lot of rants and claims regarding gender in general.
Some members here have very passionate viewpoints when it comes to discussing these topics with their children, or to children in general (such as in schools).
I'm curious to know all your opinions when it comes to that point.
At what age do you feel is reasonable for a child to learn about sexuality and gender?
Is there a date in which it's simply too young to mention, either from the standpoint of innocence, or perhaps simply an inability to comprehend the topic?
And, how should one go about informing them about those topics?
originally posted by: angeldoll
originally posted by: Ghost147
Not too long ago, here on ATS, homosexuality was the hot topic. Same-sex marriage was becoming recognized in the US, so naturally everyone had a lot to say regarding the topic of sexuality.
Recently there's been an influx of transgender topics here, and a lot of rants and claims regarding gender in general.
Some members here have very passionate viewpoints when it comes to discussing these topics with their children, or to children in general (such as in schools).
I'm curious to know all your opinions when it comes to that point.
At what age do you feel is reasonable for a child to learn about sexuality and gender?
Is there a date in which it's simply too young to mention, either from the standpoint of innocence, or perhaps simply an inability to comprehend the topic?
And, how should one go about informing them about those topics?
You should talk to them about it, when they question you about it.
You should tell them the truth.
How about that?
What would be considered "the truth" though?
originally posted by: seasonal
a reply to: Ghost147
You know when. Sometimes it is small little talks, short and silly.
"Why did you kiss mom?"
But then the sex question, and this one can be handled as they approach the time when they start noticing other kids of the opposite sex.
And what do you mean by gender?
originally posted by: angeldoll
a reply to: Ghost147
What would be considered "the truth" though?
So true, Ghost. (Good to see you by the way).
One parent might tell their child the transkids are screwed up, and should be bullied at school, where another might tell them it's the way the individual wants to change and live and should be respected.
I don't think we can control that though. As far as most people who don't live in a hateful, bullying world, I think the latter would be more appropriate. Information to young children is best given one drop at a time. As they continue to ask questions, more information about a topic is given. It depends on their level of understanding and how curious they are.
originally posted by: Antipathy17
At what age do you feel is reasonable for a child to learn about sexuality and gender? "Learn what?" should be the first question. There are a lot of reasonable things to discuss with young adults but we need to figure out a way to teach about it. Right now we have the young being taught about it via the internet. Which in many ways is horrible. As long as it doesn't seem they are pushing young adults toward it, I'd say earliest 16.
originally posted by: Antipathy17
At what age do you feel is reasonable for a child to learn about sexuality and gender? "Learn what?" should be the first question. There are a lot of reasonable things to discuss with young adults but we need to figure out a way to teach about it. Right now we have the young being taught about it via the internet. Which in many ways is horrible. As long as it doesn't seem they are pushing young adults toward it, I'd say earliest 16.