posted on Jan, 28 2017 @ 08:30 AM
Recently I had the parents of a girl I had used to date 2 years ago locate my phone number through this girls older sister. The older sister was a
friend from college and had actually introduced me to her younger sister and she is how we met. Anyways her parents had offered me a shocking
revelation.., she had a baby and he is about a year and 5-6 months old. Here is the thing, when her and I were together at the time I was in Vermont
helping with my fathers business's and she had become pregnant then.
That supposedly lasted 6 months her and I would see each other back and forth between Vermont and Pennsylvania until she had said she had a
miscarriage, this (supposed) miscarriage was a big blow to family especially my Father and I as we had started making all the appropriate arrangements
and all seemed very good between her and I. Then that and everything changed she had become very depressed at least over the phone and had said she
needed space because of it all. I gave her her space and she chose to not speak with me for all this time until yesterday.
So anyway her parents had explained to me that she said that this baby was from her new boyfriend but because of the time frame that would also mean
she was cheating on me while I was away or it is mine. Then they had sent me photos of the baby and he looks like me all the way. Now I did contact
her after putting some careful thought into what I wanted to say but she has been very stubborn into meeting up and the possibility of a DNA
comparison. After the phone conversion which in my opinion was not very enlightening her parents had called me back also explaining she doesn't want
to because she is afraid if he is my boy that I am going to file against her for custody and # up her life.
I am utterly confused, depressed, and lost in this situation. I have so many questions and she is unwilling to more or less be honest and explain
things to me. Any advice I could really use.
Thank you ATS a lot of you are my old friends of this forum for years and I appreciate you all!!!
Here is recent pics one is of me taken today and the other was from the summer according to the grandparents that sent the photos to me.