Thank you ATS for remarkable kindness!...i am very happy now

the day i decided to join and remove fear of communicating with people, my male parent passed over. if thitkere is one thing he taught me it was to stop fearing everything and everyone and try to join society....
So i am pleased to announce that for one, i found a wonderful occupation as an assistant manager in a fancy restaurant! gREAT NEWS FOR ME!
The uniforms are high collar and it is a reservation only environment...my title involves tending to grievances from employees and customers...not that we are expecting any, plus i will over see the state of clean environment to bake and cook...simple and so satisfactory to my work history!
I am also part of a team to put together changing menus as the fare is focusing on local and sustainable farming practices in dealing with the farmers market!
The owner is from Sri Lanka and his wife is my hair dresser...and we have been very close now for over 15 years...!

The most wonderful news is my engagement to the lead dishwasher and manager oF the bus people (Busboy/girl..we are non gender specific!)
My fiance and i both went in half to purchase nose rings, mine is a pink petalight stone set in rose and yellow gold with black accents of tiny jet chips on either side...my partner's nose ring is yellow topaz in sterling silver with diamond chip accents...
We hired an artist to depict the festivities as there will be no recordings on film...we might consider casset tape recordings of the Vows...and possible comments from guests and family relations...most likely comments will be unwelcome as per the jealous nature in our community/the folks that think i'm wealthy and ask for spare change...try as i do to keep good relations, you never know for sure from whee a marital curse will come from as a family relation in my first marraige, lifted her left hand in a toast and wished for center of attention...a big no no in my culture...
So my fiance and me met as children and reconnected by chance in an area out in nature...
It was fantastical!...Geese were chasing me and my love ran beside me and we found some grapes running through a yard not realising we were on private property....an old lady looked out from her home and invited us in, she said we are ment to be and so my love took my hand and said, "your the only one i will ever feel such a romantic feeling for, lets show everyone what romance is all about!"
i smiled and said ,"so we shall be married?"
my love said, "this life and every other life, forever...through heaven and buddahs hell...we shall be true to real love of the most high!"
and so now my love and me will be carefully setting aside our earnings and saving for our happy union to be witnessed in Kwan Yins eyes...(our temples patron diety and by the cross of Jesus Christ...my families tradition of beliefs)
Thank you so kindly ATS for the past year of so many struggles and fun threads...there are many very kind ones and you all know how much i trully care about what your kindness means..
thank you for giving me the opportunity to explain what a wonderful thing life is at this moment in my happy world...bless you dear people...you mean more than the World tome!
as soon as the depictions are drawn i will show them here...after Winter solstice...thank you again..

May I be the first to congratulate you here. You just gotta be stubborn and keep looking to tomorrow.

a reply to: peppycat

Congratuations Peppy! I am so happy to see you happy!

It sounds so beautiful I would have wished to be there

Thank you Gothmog and Relra! we are so full of excitement and silly giddy feelings...the DJ and my love are just estatic and so far one choice is...

Congratulations Peppy!

Congrats Peppy. Much happiness.

kind regards,

bally

Thank you Nightstar and Bally001! my significant other and myself are truly blessed from nice folks as yourselves!
we are currantly seeking a nice match for my loves kid to walk with us down the isle...will fill you in on how things are being arranged...

a reply to: peppycat

Nice to see a positive post from you here. Glad you're happy!!!

YAY!

It is nice to hear some good news (versus possibly living on the streets )

Congrats! And many well wishes!

Strange how life works, huh? One moment it is bleak and dreary then... you get to make such a great announcement like this! I am glad that you have found some happiness in this world. It couldn't happen to a kinder soul (from our short amount of interactions, that is my impression). Glad you like your new job too! :hi-five:

Peppycat turns the page!!

a reply to: peppycat

Congrats!

Love is great, and it's always good to hear about it. May your impending marriage be as great as mine has for the past nearly 15 years!

And geese are mean--I yelled "honk" at one once, and it chased me all the way to my truck and then proceeded to follow me as I drove off.

thank you and14263, TEO and Slap....we are so pleased to share another song with you that we chose together for the engagment party!

more wonderful news! the person i used to be love sick for is now married with a daughter and they will renew their vows soon!
a very lovley pear the two! They both work in shops and i am so happy for them as i found love and so did the two King and Queen of two great shopps in my town...
It will be such an honer to serve the two beautiful pair in my new occupational environment, The restaruant! they are with a very large family with lots of friends ...so thats really great for currency flow!
as the restaurant is under way, i am now working with Autistic teenagers as volunteer work...with food and water provided...so things are so wonderful... i was lucky to be invited to the volunteer work by a long standing family aquantance...good stuff all around!

okay, so we are now thinking of matchy outfits...my love and me think of a few colors like a certain green and soft purple and the argument currently is me wanting black grey/taupe and off white with baby pink and baby green....i am wearing a certain outfit and so is my one true love...we are over the moon with joy preparing for our wedding!
my partner suggested white and i was all, "really?/sarc...why not just pink and black?" on and on the arguments...
we'll let ya'll know soon as we agree!
oh and the food arguments...i am worn out from he battle between us...!

a reply to: TEOTWAWKIAIFF

Somewhat disapointing news occured...my true love opened up and told me things that are very difficult to speak about...
my love is married and wanted me to make movies with the spouses...i had no clue...pornagraphy...the whole plan was to trick me into thinking it was just the two of us and there would be a secret camera on our ''wedding night"
my love was all, " sorry i thought we could earn some dough and be a big happy family.."
so i am not so sure about our wedding and forgive the plans yet now we are working towards just being friends...as i am not interested in poligamy or poly amorous marriage....i suggested a divorce and that we could hand fast for three years or less to see if just the two of us could be the perfect pair...so i await an answer,,, love is tough! thanks for being here!
i met the others and they are nice... but...i told them the farthest i will go is a touch on arm above the elbow...one got a kiss on the nose and a couple of others hands were touched by my hands and then one or even hugged me with clothing on.

a reply to: peppycat

Sorry for your disappointment. No offense but your love sounds like a jerk off for not being honest and upfront from the beginning.

Never settle for less than you deserve or feel as if you have to sacrifice yourself just to find love with someone else.

If that's necessary, then it's not love in my opinion.

Good luck to you!

a reply to: peppycat


It's not what I would want for myself. I know some folks are into that sort of thing, but if he can't be happy with just you...I don't know, but that would never go for me.

a reply to: TNMockingbird

I have to agree whole heartedly!

a reply to: TNMockingbird

yeah, so now that the relationship is in shambles...i might not be the assistant manager at the restauraunt with my now ex fiance...if i speak to the owners, i hope they at least consider my feelings and keep our hours seperated so there is no crying all the time...thanks for being here, TM....love is out there and i might contact a different friend from childhood, now...
thanks a bunch, i feel much better!

a reply to: Night Star

yeah, my friends and there parents were like that and i don't fault them for what they all did or liked to do..so these new folks that wanted me to marry into them are fine to be plutonic friends with...and i am very fine with this...
i just thought it could be me my love and maybe a kid...perhaps i will look into adopting on my own and be a mother anyhow...with lots of animals and a good yard to grow things in...settling down with one person is a bunch of work...i'm sure my match is just around the next corner, waiting for true love and being best friends..
you mean so much right now for being here, Night, thanks for your comforting presence...
i am here for you as well, if your sad or what not, this whole year is very emotional...be well and one day soon i'll write a story that you might feel comforted in...missed you! perhaps when become cheerful i visit the shed?

a reply to: TNMockingbird

thank you once more for being here both you and Nightstar! i have the most wonderful news....yes, my dear love and me are currently separated and living in separate homes, yet our friendship is still in the works! we discuss recocilliation and becoming closer as best firends and are still interested in a wedding...
the best news is my new status as a counselor for folks doing community service, cleaning up hazardus material along the river in my town...i am in charge of a group of juvaniles with many issues that need my comfort and care...which is much easier to provide from being cared for here on ATS...so thank you dear people you mean more than the world to me!
and as luck should have it...food and water is provided through charitable donations from the generous nature of truly wonderful and kind folks in my town!
there is canned food, potatoes and even fresh produce for salads and what not!
now all i need to purchase is a can opener and i am set...some disposable dishes and utensils ...of course as we believe in civilized action around our camp fire!
you can't eat beans with your fingers right.. i might buy tortillas and cheese for our lunch hour between cleaning the river up as eating a burrito with your hands is fairly average behavior during super and what not...
a fight did break out... and am trying to mediate the issue of these youngsters...thanks for stopping here!
will fill ya in on my fiance soon! that one is all...work work work...and i am all.."waht about me!?...why we never speak ever these days...?!"
that one was all.."you usually hate speaking...so whats the big deal!?"and i was all, "speaking is fun and also exhausting...so that argument is annoying!"
then we hugged it out and decided to wait a bit more to argue or kiss and make up...we aren't sure yet...
that one said maybe buy a new outfit since yo are running out of clean clothing...so i go shopping soon! i am considering a pair of pants, skirt and shirt some shoes and socks too! will let you know soon...stay tuned...don't change that dial...