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originally posted by: Kangaruex4Ewe
Women... PLEASE quit bringing your "boyfriends" around your children. PLEASE.
This happens far too often. Many walk, some don't. Love your children enough to not bring every Tom, Dick, and Harry around them. I understand sometimes things happen with folks we never imagined would do things like this but it happens all too frequently because mom just wants her boyfriend around.
This makes me sick and sad and angry.
originally posted by: harvestdog
a reply to: tinymind
Dude, Tinymind, She was two years old. Read the article and say she wasn't raped.
originally posted by: spav5
originally posted by: Kangaruex4Ewe
Women... PLEASE quit bringing your "boyfriends" around your children. PLEASE.
This happens far too often. Many walk, some don't. Love your children enough to not bring every Tom, Dick, and Harry around them. I understand sometimes things happen with folks we never imagined would do things like this but it happens all too frequently because mom just wants her boyfriend around.
This makes me sick and sad and angry.
Why not place the blame where it should be placed? Do you advocate keeping children away from church because a Priest molest them? Stay out of school because a teacher molests them? Kick them out of the home because a sibling molests them?
Stop blaming women for what men do. It is disgusting.
I notice that you did not say "dads stop abandoning your children it allows strange men to molest them".
originally posted by: TechniXcality
a reply to: Spider879
I'm so sorry for that little girl...
This is just heartbreaking I don't have anything to say.
originally posted by: Kangaruex4Ewe
originally posted by: spav5
originally posted by: Kangaruex4Ewe
Women... PLEASE quit bringing your "boyfriends" around your children. PLEASE.
This happens far too often. Many walk, some don't. Love your children enough to not bring every Tom, Dick, and Harry around them. I understand sometimes things happen with folks we never imagined would do things like this but it happens all too frequently because mom just wants her boyfriend around.
This makes me sick and sad and angry.
Why not place the blame where it should be placed? Do you advocate keeping children away from church because a Priest molest them? Stay out of school because a teacher molests them? Kick them out of the home because a sibling molests them?
Stop blaming women for what men do. It is disgusting.
I notice that you did not say "dads stop abandoning your children it allows strange men to molest them".
What's disgusting is a society that no longer feels like it is a parent's duty to keep their child from harm. I place blame on the man, but I also place it on the mother. Go back and read the article and listen how this mother said this man acted.., then come here and proudly state that this is the way you would raise your children.
Be for real. They share the blame. So far children do not belong to the communities or government. Until they do it is up to you to try and protect them the best you can. That does not include having a drunk, abusive man around your children. He should have never seen the light of day again. But the mother saw behavior of abuse and while not sexual, her children should not have been living with it period.
Get real angry about who should shoulder all of the blame here. Ignoring all involved is making sure that it keeps happening.