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What a #ing crock of #. Have you thought that maybe she is actually really interested in you?? People wank on about herpes like it's the end of the world.. Jeeze if your careful and use a condom and she knows she doesn't have an outbreak. it's not even a big deal at all. Hey I can't even read the future but I bet you'll die, and it won't be from herpes.. There's only 3.7 Billion people affected from it. Good luck dying from the stress of trying to avoid it! It's such a stigmatized condition, you might miss out on an epic relationship because of nothing.
originally posted by: trollz
originally posted by: rockintitz
a reply to: bananashooter
This is one of the only times I would say wait till marriage.
100% this. The fact that she has herpes is probably making her desperate to be with anyone she can. As you said, you've only known her a short time... And she really, really wants to have sex. I'm willing to bet she's been laying the wooing on pretty heavy to try to hook you in (and trying to seduce you into having sex so that you can willfully infect yourself and you'll both then be on equal ground, with you therefore having nothing to lose), because she knows nobody wants someone with sexual diseases.
Don't do it, you can't get rid of herpes. It's with you for life. And once you have it, it's pretty much her or no one else, because no woman is going to say "Oh, I don't mind getting herpes, you seem like a nice enough guy!".
Either wait til you're married, or run fast.