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The feminine man - like the female - is cast as weak because something very scary lies at the root of reality: our inherent vulnerability. Men are prone to hide these secrets by pretending they don't exist. Convert that phrase into cognitive science or psychoanalysis and you'll get "a self-system aggravated by testosterone and the masculine symbolic structures in the cultural system, instigating neurological programs that dissociate uncomfortable affects and feelings from conscious attention in most individual males".
originally posted by: DeathSlayer
I am not a male macho and I do support females in both the work place and in the home BUT what you are talking about ....... there is a name for it......it is called being "pussified". Many great men have fallen and been destroyed in politics, government, and the entertainment business because of women and their control over men. That's right CONTROL. It has very little to do with testosterone..... it has more to do with sex and how it wraps around the male reptilian brain. For every man who has married a woman that is close to his age I can name ten who have married elderly men and it is apparent why? If I was 30 year old female.....even 50 and was walking down the street with an 80 year old man and stepped into a Bentley and were seen kissing each other as they drove away I would not think that is his daughter, now would I? Of course not.... it is his wife, or his lover...... either way there can NOT be any sexual attraction...... HOWEVER what is attractive is his bank account .
There are way too many gold diggers out here and they seek out the "pussified men" with money that they can control. Most everyone knows a good man that is happily married frequently shows signs of "pussification" on a regular basis.
For every man who has married a woman that is close to his age I can name ten who have married elderly men and it is apparent why? If I was 30 year old female.....even 50 and was walking down the street with an 80 year old man and stepped into a Bentley and were seen kissing each other as they drove away I would not think that is his daughter, now would I? Of course not.... it is his wife, or his lover...... either way there can NOT be any sexual attraction...... HOWEVER what is attractive is his bank account .
The feminine man - like the female - is cast as weak because something very scary lies at the root of reality: our inherent vulnerability.
Many great men have fallen and been destroyed in politics, government, and the entertainment business because of women and their control over men.
prenatal testosterone, and not so much, as you say, the "masculine symbolic structures in the cultural system", had much to do with sex-related behavior.
As you show by your own claim to femininity, these symbolic structures had little to no effect on your own sexuality. I think the idea of the "blank slate", that people are like silly putty, is slowly falling out of favour. I don't know if you've read Steven Pinker's "The Blank Slate", but he goes into great deal on this very topic, and much of it has to do with gender.
I fear there is an unnecessary backlash occurring against masculinity, and masculine men, as evidenced by the negative and pejorative language used against it, both here and elsewhere
As you have hinted at in your post, is this mainly because of envy? Or is it an unconscious defence against one's own vulnerability in the face of masculinity?