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originally posted by: projectbane
a reply to: Mr Mask
YOUR child is like so many others these day in North America (not saying YOU are from North America) but they are whiny little babies. This fathers method although a touch extreme is GOOD for the kid. Jesus now a days every damn thing is about how to cuddle and protect kids from scrapes and loving everybody. Having moved from the UK to America I notice a massive difference in kids. The ones in the US are such babies!!
NO...your child is soft and needs a wake up call! Kids in the Poland and Russia and Germany are much tougher and those in 3rd world countries are tougher still.
No harm done to that kid. Maybe he will now have NO fear on that ramp!!
originally posted by: SaturnFX
ok, so here is what I see.
The father, wanting to encourage the kid to stop freaking out over the height, should have let him use it as a slide first...sit on it, nudge over, maybe even slowly lower him down so he feels the curve, then as confidence grows..go more and more until he is ready...be it 10 minutes, a hour, a day, a week, etc.
This kid will be lucky to not have severe trust issues in life and a fear of heights now because of this.
Goes to show you, you don't have to be a scholar to breed..anyone can do it, and unworthy parents often do.
originally posted by: Hollie
The way you made the vid repeat, over and over and over, and slowed down over and over and over, to show that nudge, makes you nothing less than a maniac. Not only are you a maniac with nothing else to do, you are raising your child to be the same way. I am "sure" your kid just desperately wanted to talk to you about this? Yea okay. Why don't you discuss pageant babies, child gymnasts that never get menstrual cycles, or maybe, just maybe, something a little more important such as fishing, or gardening, or even building a house or spaceship with your 10 year old son for your next episode?
Hope you are happy that DCF is involved. Now you and your son can get them pushy soccer moms and extreme cheer leader parents next? Unless you have something better to do besides discredit every other parent that doesn't parent the way you do? You made me angry in case I didn't come across that way. Some people throw their children into the pool to learn to swim, some even let their babies play with snakes, who the hell are you to say?
originally posted by: Night Star
How can you possibly say that no harm was done to that little boy who was clearly abused? He was hurt physically and emotionally.
I will never understand people like you!
originally posted by: Fylgje
*Disclaimer*
I'm not defending this douche bag.
As a dad, I understand what this guy was trying to do. He was trying to help his kid overcome a fear, and when his kid couldn't, he pushed him. It looks really bad but I don't think this guy had any bad intentions. He just wants his kid to succeed, to overcome. He made a bad decision and it was caught on tape. As a dad, I can say we all make bad decisions from time to time, with the best interests of our children at hand. But I still think this guy is a douche.
originally posted by: projectbane
a reply to: Mr Mask
YOUR child is like so many others these day in North America (not saying YOU are from North America) but they are whiny little babies. This fathers method although a touch extreme is GOOD for the kid. Jesus now a days every damn thing is about how to cuddle and protect kids from scrapes and loving everybody. Having moved from the UK to America I notice a massive difference in kids. The ones in the US are such babies!!
NO...your child is soft and needs a wake up call! Kids in the Poland and Russia and Germany are much tougher and those in 3rd world countries are tougher still.
No harm done to that kid. Maybe he will now have NO fear on that ramp!!
originally posted by: blupblup
originally posted by: projectbane
a reply to: Mr Mask
YOUR child is like so many others these day in North America (not saying YOU are from North America) but they are whiny little babies. This fathers method although a touch extreme is GOOD for the kid. Jesus now a days every damn thing is about how to cuddle and protect kids from scrapes and loving everybody. Having moved from the UK to America I notice a massive difference in kids. The ones in the US are such babies!!
NO...your child is soft and needs a wake up call! Kids in the Poland and Russia and Germany are much tougher and those in 3rd world countries are tougher still.
No harm done to that kid. Maybe he will now have NO fear on that ramp!!
You're an embarrassment.....
Shhhhh
originally posted by: LockwithnoKey
Once the revolution starts, the weak and pampered will be the first to be made into entertainment for the strong..
All very true. I also don't see how shoving the kid down the ramp will help. That's not the way to teach. However I also don't believe in pampering. There are better ways of doing things. The army may toss you in the deep end and tell you to swim, but that kid was not of enlistment age and has a much different view of the world. Dad didn't help.
originally posted by: KnightLight
originally posted by: LockwithnoKey
Once the revolution starts, the weak and pampered will be the first to be made into entertainment for the strong..
Those that are weak at heart and weak in their mind don't have what the Army calls mental toughness... You cannot overcome mental weakness by being shoved down a slide, nor can you by losing patience... Nor will you have the mental toughness once revolution breaks. Those are the ones who lose out first, not the timid...
You'll know this one day.
If you can't teach a kid to skate the way you would teach an adult, you lose. It's not ok to exert your will over others to get your way. Or did your dad never teach you??
The kid who gains confidence on his own with encouragement will be the kid who can survive a society break down with some encouragement. The kid who has to be forced will be dead weight.