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Perhaps others who have committed adultery will think the post was wonderful ...
I specifically said I liked his post becaue it was sincere and real, you know, the exact opposite of most of yours.........
FlyersFan....Don't feed the trolls.
No genius ... I was addressing the OP .. OPENING POSTER.
He admits to playing house with a woman not his wife. He admits to falling in love. He admits to kissing her. Yet he claims not to be a cheater and to take his vow seriously. Obviously he doesn't. THAT is what is real. Not his excuse or justification attempt for an affair. Deal with it.
there was no reason for it.
Why are you blaming the US gov't for your situation? Did they screw up paperwork ... or is your and your families immigration status of your own doing?
I'll just hit the alert button on trolls like I"m supposed to and let the mods deal with it. I've edited my posts out so that I won't get sucked down ....
To everyone else: Eat me. Your judgements are only reflections of yourself and your inability to see other human beings as they are. Human. I am a mirror.
I hope you guys brought your windex for that nice glass house.
To everyone else: Eat me. Your judgements are only reflections of yourself and your inability to see other human beings as they are.
Try understanding human nature more so as to understand one more person.
Your judgements are only reflections of yourself and your inability to see other human beings as they are.
reply to post by tadaman
Having been a wife that was told, I would say it's better to not volunteer the information. To tell her, and try to stay together- she would have a lot of doubts to battle for a very long time. My mind goes crazy at times, because of my doubts. It's a kind of hell, if that makes any sense.
I am glad to hear that you picked your wife over this new love. I believe that too many people walk away when their heart feels something for someone new.
Sticking around will just leave you with doubts and paranoia
To the OP:
Make it right. Don't worry about what you have to lose right now, because you have far more to lose later by being dishonest.