posted on Mar, 2 2014 @ 12:55 AM
reply to post by boncho
Amazing what an edumication gets you these days. Make sure not to breath heavy or show interest in women, because you might be a rapist. Oddly
enough, if you're at a bar, and a girl likes you, she might be mad you're not doing one or two of these… Must be the alcohol.
I wrote an essay on this very subject in college. Unless you are a woman and have been subjected to this type of behavior, please refrain from
mocking things like this. That kind of crap can be downright scary. I don't own a vehicle and I walk everywhere or take the bus. I can tell you
that this happens to me a lot, and it is never
welcome. I am very good at taking care of myself but the reality is, I am a 117 lb. woman and
if someone decided to attack me and they had me cornered, they might just get me. And some of the guys out there act like they just might. I carry
four rolls of quarters in the bottom of my bag at all times just in case i need to drop someone with them...have for years.
At the very least, I find that behavior to be disgusting. Why would you breathe heavy in the general direction of a woman you don't know? I guess
if you want her to think you're some revolting mouth-breather that would work. Whistling, catcalling, "hey baby"-ing, blowing kisses, staring a
woman up and down, and my personal favorite...honking the horn in your car while a woman is walking down the street; all of those behaviors are the
last thing that makes me go "oooh, i really want to hook up with that
guy!" But the reason they refer to it as "psychological rape" is
that it is just as degrading as someone putting their hands on you or pinching/grabbing your ass (i once knocked a man's molar out for that), or
rubbing up against you...only without actually touching
you. Why should any woman have to endure that kind of thing whenever she goes out in
public? The answer to that is: she shouldn't have to.