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Originally posted by SQUEALER
Things that always make women look and pay attention:
2) borrow someone's baby, and hang around with the baby in the park, or grocery store.
Originally posted by fadedface
reply to post by smyleegrl
Your pseudo inspirational talk of 'only you can change yourself' sounds hollow and meaningless. Other people don't change themselves they get given the 'breaks' somewhere along the line even if they don't admit it. That is the only way to really change anything.
Yes I did get bullied and would still be getting bullied if I hadn't of become distant and remote from the majority of people which is how I want to remain now.
I just think its unfair and unjust that women ignore and reject males like myself who have no confidence when we should be owed and entitled to what faceless confident people who have had the breaks in life have got and take for granted.edit on 19-5-2013 by fadedface because: (no reason given)
Your pseudo inspirational talk of 'only you can change yourself' sounds hollow and meaningless. Other people don't change themselves they get given the 'breaks' somewhere along the line even if they don't admit it. That is the only way to really change anything.
Originally posted by fadedface
reply to post by dogstar23
Confident males are inherently bullies because they marginalise weaker more passive males in social situations so in this respect women are indeed attracted to bullies.
All I got from that thread is women don't mind fixing 'bad boy' scumbags and 'cocky jerks' (obviously because their challenging alpha males) but don't want to help males who have low confidence and no social skills because we're self pitying. That really says it all. Maybe these females don't realise that if they gave us males with no self esteem some attention instead of falling over themselves for the exciting cocky idiots then maybe we might actually gain some confidence.
Originally posted by fadedface
Originally posted by hotel1
Remember girls/ladies alpha does mean admirable.
All alpha males are inherently bullies because they are competitive and aggressively confident and care only for themselves and their own success and it is this which so attracts women.
The only genuinely 'nice guys' are weak, passive and timid socially awkward omega males like myself.
Originally posted by smyleegrl
What woman would want to date someone who constantly whines that he's entitled to something for nothing? What man would want to date a woman who did the same thing?
Originally posted by fadedface
reply to post by Akragon
All I got from that thread is women don't mind fixing 'bad boy' scumbags and 'cocky jerks' (obviously because their challenging alpha males) but don't want to help males who have low confidence and no social skills because we're self pitying. That really says it all. Maybe these females don't realise that if they gave us males with no self esteem some attention instead of falling over themselves for the exciting cocky idiots then maybe we might actually gain some confidence.
Originally posted by fadedface
Originally posted by smyleegrl
What woman would want to date someone who constantly whines that he's entitled to something for nothing? What man would want to date a woman who did the same thing?
Well I wouldn't mind for a start and I'm sure lots of other males who lack confidence, have no self esteem and are socially awkward wouldn't mind either.edit on 19-5-2013 by fadedface because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by fadedface
reply to post by smyleegrl
Well I didn't mean to be disrespectful and throw your advice back in your face (so sorry if it came across like that) I'm just cynical how it can change anything for me now.