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Originally posted by DaTroof
Other than daily sexual arousal, I have no need for women. I hate gossip and drama, and I certainly can't stand listening to mindless babble just so a woman can hear herself talk.
Women spend money irrationally and force men to buy things they normally wouldn't buy. Women constantly change their minds about important financial decisions.
Really, all a woman has to offer me is a sexual experience, and even then I want them to leave when we're done. I prefer to be by myself and to make decisions for myself.
Originally posted by DaTroof
Other than daily sexual arousal, I have no need for women. I hate gossip and drama, and I certainly can't stand listening to mindless babble just so a woman can hear herself talk.
Women spend money irrationally and force men to buy things they normally wouldn't buy. Women constantly change their minds about important financial decisions.
Really, all a woman has to offer me is a sexual experience, and even then I want them to leave when we're done. I prefer to be by myself and to make decisions for myself.
True, I find emotional black mail and sexual blackmail happerning to my friends all the time cos of thier girlfriends, girls can be bitches and manipulative and I think its more of a problem now than ever. Especially with all this "Boxed up vanity comercialisation" in TV/Magazine adverts which is then sold to our kids to make them vain and bitchy.
Another thing tha anoys me with women is when they start date some guy who treats her like crap and from now on in her life 'Men are dogs' and all they want is sex when the real issue is the men she choosing and keeps choosing, yet she is happy to say that 'All men are the same'
kinda makes me feel down about women.
Probaly why i have never had a GF.
Originally posted by DestroyDestroyDestroy
There's no reason to be bitter, women aren't evil creatures, they are just more easily lead by their emotions than men are.
The problem with modern men is society conditions us to be emotional cripples, hence why most guys can't really relate to girls.
Of course, there is the whole not needing to go out anymore thing as well; basically, social media provides us with "social interaction," thus fulfilling our need to socialize and removing desires to go out and actually interact with people. Lack of interaction creates lack of social calibration which leads to social awkwardness.
Basically, if you want a better sex life, start going out and having fun and meeting people. Naturally, you'll meet someone you click with and you may even hook up with that person. To an extent, everyone is afraid of his or her own success; we can attribute this mental homeostasis. As long as we're getting by and our basic needs are being met (food, shelter, sex, which can be substituted for porn and masturbation, etc), our minds see no need to change our behaviors. We don't want to remove ourselves from our comfort zones because it's NOT COMFORTABLE. Well, the thing is, if you're not in the game, you're not going to win, and you're not going to lose. Repeat the same actions, expect the same results.
Originally posted by Gazrok
reply to post by BO XIAN
Men and women relate completely differently with each other, depending on age, so that is a factor sorely missing from this...
For example, what women think they want in the teens and 20's, is COMPLETELY different than what they eventually realize they want in their 30's and 40's.
Likewise, in the teens and 20's, guys just want to get laid, but not just that, but they want to score only with the hottest gal they can find (much like the gals in the same age category).
For those guys that DO mature early and know how to communicate and listen to women, they are actually at a social DISADVANTAGE during the teens and 20's, as they will be the proverbial "Nice Guy" and "Friend Zone" type. Once in their 30's and up, these guys will be ideal partners....providing the teens and 20's rejection didn't completely destroy them, and they're not living in Mom and Dad's basement, collecting comics, while endlessly playing MMORPGs online 24/7.....
As for more pornos than movies, well, pornos are WAY cheaper, quicker, and easier to produce than a hollywood film, so OF COURSE there will be more, movie for movie. Who really pays for porn anyway? There's so much you can get for free. For me to pay for it, it has to have some other value than just porn (like the parodies, which are actually pretty well made, and have comedic value also).
It does point to a bigger problem though...the fact that today's youth has more of a VIRTUAL existence than an in person one. It seems they haven't learned the value of direct person to person communication in the world of texts, emails, and tweets.
I recently saw how different this is firsthand. My wife and I inherited a ranch, and are moving out to the country. It's amazing how different it is, how people are friendlier, how people pull together, and just their overall approach to one another, vs. the city. I'm really glad we're making the move, and I've already seen the difference. (I'm even using maam and sir way more than usual, hehe...)
In the study, both blacks and Hispanics were twice as likely as whites to have performed heroic deeds. Zimbardo says they want to do follow-up research on the reasons for the racial/ethnic differences, which he speculates could be attributed to "greater opportunities to respond" or "being discriminated against makes them have more compassion to others in need."
(Horrocks 1995, p.150)
Athleticism was also seen as a sublimation of sexuality that kept white Englishmen 'pure' and away from women. Thus, part of Victorian middle-class masculinity is a fierce sexual repression, a constriction that drives him out to the public world, away from the pleasures of the bedroom.
(Horrocks 1995, p. 151.)
This also led to a pervasive philistinism which still haunts English masculinity today: how much more manly it is to take part in the rigors of the muddy sports field than read poetry or philosophy.