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Originally posted by Liberal1984
At least a church provides a source of Free community, whilst the nearest source of community for others is some kind of commercial enterprise. E.g. a nightclub piling alcohol, and encouraging ever more personal debt. The next source is something like Facebook, which always leaves you feeling slightly lonely, as (so far) it's just not as good, as real intereaction.
Originally posted by Liberal1984
Apparently a survey involving some 68,000 Americans, by the “2009 National Survey on Drug Use and Health: Mental Health Findings” found 20% of Americans suffer mental health issues, which is 30% of 18 to 25 year old's, and merely 13.7% of those aged 50 plus.
So much of our depression and anxiety comes from the insistence of your dominant heroes that everything we think and feel and do is wrong and intolerable. We're constantly intimidated by "family values."
the solution is to create more secular community centers. Coffee shops, reading rooms, parks. Places where people can, and are encouraged to, hang out and meet each other.
Originally posted by Liberal1984
Fact is Christainity has ways of holding couples together for the benerfit of the children. It is surprissing how much a love of the children, can over power their hatred of each other. Then when the children are all grown up, and leaving home, often the couple decides they love & will need each other, in old age, too much!!!
Of course some churches can be guilty of bad things (evangelical cults in particular!!)
but for the most part, most churches seem to preach good relationship advice,
something to look forward to you when you die,
and other idea like needing a rest, at least one day, in the week.
They teach you should fear sin, whilst atheism enables you to merely fear accountability for sin.
After all this; then you have the other community-social benefits they provide.
Recently I went to church (after many years of not attending) and was surprised how much I missed it. I can well understand how it could benefit other young people, similar to me.
For all the talk of paedophiles, and evilgenital brainwashing, the fact is a prime reason why it gets attention is because its rare.
I certainly grew up going to Church loads of times, and non of the people I went with have blamed it for feeling suicidal, or other life problems.
Certainly a church tends to be full of caring, morally guided, good fearing people, whilst the same is just not true of almost all other communities.
I am sure that if more young people went to church, they would resemble the older generation more, and in good-ways, responsible for them lacking mental illness.
I do accept not all churches are good, but believe the vast majority provide a useful social-councilling service (for the young, bereaved, old & ill).