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Originally posted by ImaginaryReality1984
There is no evidence to back up your claim that it is a choice to be attracted to the same sex, indeed science has backed up gay people who say "i was born like this". Homosexual behavior can be observed in nature, especially among primates. Human studies of brain structure show a clear difference between gay and straight brains.
Why should they have to go some place else because they are born with a different sexuality? I assume you are straight so is that a choice? Why is one sexuality a choice and another not a choice? How about religion then, would you be ok for someone to refuse to serve a Christian, Muslim, Hindu etc?
When soemone is discriminated against then they have every right to speak out. Actually it's strange how you support the womans freedoms but you don't support the freedoms of the gay people to speak out against her actions.
Originally posted by ImaginaryReality1984
By this measure we could easily go back to the days where people could ban black people from shops, or hairdressers, or well anywhere. Would you support this action?
She admitted she did turn the couple away because it was against her policy to accommodate same sex couples.
Under the Equality Act 2006 it is illegal to discriminate against people on the grounds of sexual orientation.
Ms Wilkinson told the BBC: "They gave me no prior warning and I couldn't offer them another room as I was fully booked.
"I don't see why I should change my mind and my beliefs I've held for years just because the government should force it on me.
"I am not a hotel, I am a guest house and this is a private house."
Mr Black told the BBC: "We're two respectable middle-aged men - John is leader of the Lib Dem group on Huntingdon Town Council.
"This was the first time either of us had experienced homophobia at first hand, despite being aged 56 and 62. We were shocked and embarrassed.
"Mrs Wilkinson saw us both before we got out of the car and immediately acted in an unwelcoming, cold way, but my boyfriend and I were polite and friendly.
"She said if we'd told her in advance she would have told us not to come.
"She apologised for turning us away. I asked for a refund of the deposit, which she gave me without quibble.
"We stayed polite and, to be fair, she wasn't rude or abusive.
"All she said about her reasons for turning us away was that it went against her convictions for us to stay there.
Originally posted by TokiTheDestroyer
reply to post by dolphinfan
All this nonsense about it being her personal home becomes null and void when it is operating as a business.
Originally posted by Dark Ghost
Originally posted by ImaginaryReality1984
That is for another thread though, this thread is to do with a business owner having the right to refuse service (in a non-emergency situation) to certain customers when alternatives are available.
Why should they have to go some place else because they are born with a different sexuality? I assume you are straight so is that a choice? Why is one sexuality a choice and another not a choice? How about religion then, would you be ok for someone to refuse to serve a Christian, Muslim, Hindu etc?
Why do I have to walk an extra 10 metres at the mall if I want to urinate? Why can't I just go into the Women's toilets and urinate there? Is it my fault I was born with testicles? Everyone has the right to have consensual, legal sex with any other person. But this is about a minority kicking up a storm because a private business owner does not agree with their lifestyle choice. This is an issue of Political Correctness.
If I am turned away from a private, non-emergency business where alternatives are available I would accept it. If they told me they do not allow people that wear bow-ties to stay there then I will simply go elsewhere. I wouldn't agree with them, but I would not waste my time and energy inconveniencing other people because I feel hurt and offended.
When soemone is discriminated against then they have every right to speak out. Actually it's strange how you support the womans freedoms but you don't support the freedoms of the gay people to speak out against her actions.
Because I am sick of hearing about how people get so offended over petty matters. As a white male I am reminded pretty much every day of my life how people with the same colour skin as me have done wrong to other people in the past. Every time a Gay Rights issue is brought up it's related someway to slavery or other negative past actions by white people.
[edit on 23/3/2010 by Dark Ghost]
Unfortunately for yourself the law as it stands doesn't recognise the business owner is king attitude in the UK or being able to operate outside of the law simply because it goes against my religious principles. I'm hetro but would think it thoroughly unfair if my hetroness was legally recognised and protected only in principle and it was regarded as a crime to carry out my hetro lifestyle so saying you're not against gays just those who "choose" to carry out their sexual desires is a bit weak and disingenuous. I'm a man of my place and time and tbh I would not want gay men having sex in my spare room and may cringe at the thought but I recognise I'm wrong in thinking that way. Prejudice is wrong but may one day save your life discrimination will never do any one any good.
"In open-and-shut cases of discrimination on the grounds of sexual orientation the law’s quite clear," said Derek Munn, the director of public affairs for GLBT advocacy group Stonewall. "It’s illegal for businesses to turn away gay customers or discriminate against them when providing goods or services, and this can’t be overridden by personal prejudice."
Originally posted by Yissachar1
If this was not someones home but a big hotel group/corporation then there would be a problem... But this is their home... And in it they can be as bigoted as they like....
Luke 6:35-37 (King James Version)
35But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.
36Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.
37Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven:
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
It's not forcing tolerance or kindness. The woman does not have to be tolerant or kind. It's disallowing discrimination.
Originally posted by Skyfloating
I can be tolerant myself (and I am- very) but the problem begins when I expect it from others so much so that I try to intervene into the way they conduct Business or live their life.