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Originally posted by ModernAcademia
if you have a girlfriend or a wife go ask her if she would mind showering in front of a bunch of men
so it's just a showering issue?
I think it's how do female soldiers cope with men
Answer = They don't shower with them!
Originally posted by pieman
i just did, her answer, which i really liked, was "if i was able to trust them to save my life in a gunfight, i think i could trust them not to jump me in the shower"
Originally posted by ModernAcademia
I don't believe you that you asked her
what does jumping her have to do with anything
Originally posted by ALLis0NE
Don't ask, don't tell, because nobody needs to know.
Originally posted by getreadyalready
120 degree heat, people dying around you, camel spiders and scorpions, and sand in your clothes. Carrying heavy equipment and riding in humvees damaged by IED with plywood for doors, but your concern is someone seeing you naked?
Originally posted by getreadyalready
ModernAcademia,
I have seen your other posts, you are intelligent albeit a little too liberal for me, so how does this jive with your other opinions? Even your name scream liberal, but you are scared of gay men?
Ok lets go with your view.
No segregation at all. Men and women of all sexuality shower at the same time and share the same quarters.
Originally posted by ModernAcademia
And I am not scared of gay men
I just wouldn't at all feel comfortable in the shower with them whatsoever, not even 1%, not even .00001% comfort.
Originally posted by detachedindividual
But where does that discomfort come from?
And why would another's sexual persuasion even matter?
What do you think will happen?
Originally posted by detachedindividual
I'm sorry, but you're not making much sense on this particular matter. You suggest that you wouldn't feel comfortable, but I don't feel comfortable around spiders because I have a fear of them, a phobia.
I don't feel comfortable around criminals because I fear for my safety.
I don't feel comfortable in large crowds of people because I fear mob mentality.
Originally posted by detachedindividual
You see where I'm going with this. Discomfort has to be based in something, you can't just throw that out there and expect no one to wonder exactly what you really mean
I'll be honest with you.
I feel very alienated in this thread.
Never knew this many people wouldn't understand my perspective.
I'd say 99.9% of people I know would not only understand me but completely agree with me.
But as i've mentioned in this thread, nothing NEEDS to happen
wandering eyes are sufficient!
Even if they don't wander, I KNOW that if i was in a shower full of women my eyes would wander.
Originally posted by getreadyalready
Would you feel uncomfortable if a woman saw you naked? If so, why? If not, what is different?
Originally posted by getreadyalready
If your clothes were on fire, would you have second thoughts about shedding them?
Originally posted by getreadyalready
Are you uncomfortable naked when you are home alone? A lot of people are, but it seems very odd, doesn't it?
Originally posted by getreadyalready
No one has stated they would feel uncomfortable in battle next to them, only in the shower or sleeping quarters!
Originally posted by getreadyalready
Would you also be uncomfortable knowing that many of your heterosexual bunkmates were masturbating under their covers within feet of you?
Originally posted by getreadyalready
I would!! My Navy buddies always joke about the one sock that would stand up on its own!
Originally posted by Welfhard
Surely if anything you should be flattered. Gay men looking at you - if they weren't you ought feel bad wouldn't you?
TextI heard about hazing
People putting a bucket of ice in your undewear and due to shrinkage tellin you "you have sex with that"
Anyone tried that with me I would break their face and crack their necks.