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Originally posted by spellbound
Can you believe that we, in NZ, are voting on whether it is OK to smack your kids?
Obviously, people in Britain believe it is OK, and so do our Maori and Pacific Island population.
I disagree. I do not think people have the right to smack their kids - that is abuse.
You do not own your kids - you are just custodians, hopefully teaching them right from wrong, and also teaching them to love - abused kids do not love anyone, including themselves.
Originally posted by EyesWideShut
I believe its ok to "pow pow" your kids if the situation warrants it. I'm not saying beat your kids or abuse them or break their little spirits. But different things call for different punishments . When my son was two he went through this biting phase for a week , after 3 or 4 bites throughout the week and after I explained to him that it isn't ok and why , I bit his little arm back. (fairly light pressure) he never bit again. At two years old he couldn't understand that the biting was causing pain , and he thought it was a game. (you can't reason with a two year old , they're like little ID's Running around) It wasn't until I observed him at his daycare that I saw where he learned this behavior from. Some other kid who's parents probably don't discipline him or think that it's cute. You raise your kid your way , I'll raise my kid my way. Let your kid be a little ill behaved biting beast , It just reflects on how you raise him. If you don't love your kid enough to discipline him and teach him right from wrong , shame on you. These are probably the same people that let the Television raise their kids.
how about everyone take their noses out of my private business to begin with.
No one should mandate to me how to raise my child to begin with.
Originally posted by spellbound
reply to post by seagull
Here I am, back again for more punishment.
What did those words do to my mother?
They challenged her total dictactorship, that is what they did.
This episode cut my heart, and it challenged her rulership.
So who was hurt more?
Originally posted by spellbound
You do not own your kids - you are just custodians, hopefully teaching them right from wrong, and also teaching them to love - abused kids do not love anyone, including themselves.
Originally posted by spellbound
reply to post by lardo5150
Why not try talking and reasoning?
If kids had a bit more interaction with parents, they could probably be quite reasonable.
The problem is that parents cut themselves off from their kids, and then become the big bosses, along with teachers - the Enemy!